miles here miles Bechtler calm and in
this video I want to talk a bit about
the really common phrase that growth
begins outside of your comfort zone now
I want to explain this quote in a little
bit of depth to help you reframe maybe
some feelings that you feel like
nervousness or fear or doubt I want help
you reframe those so they become kind of
allies to you instead of enemies to you
and I'm gonna share a story about how
this has been going down in my life to
give you some perspective so first of
all you've probably heard the quote
before and it's that growth begins
outside of your comfort zone I don't
know exactly where this quote came from
were just like absolutely hundred
percent agree and when you really truly
believe this to the point of
implementing it in your life you
actually begin to seek out those
experiences that force you outside of
your comfort zone you see most people in
their life are on autopilot
of some sort they're doing what feels
safe and secure but that's only a
feeling of security and what they're
doing is they're staying within their
comfort zone they drive the same route
to the same office even though they
potentially don't like what they do they
work the same forty hours a week with
the plan to do that for 40 years with no
real kind of hopeful sighted end but all
of that feels comfortable and it feels
comfortable because generally
generationally that's what a lot of us
are taught is the right way or the safe
way to go about things and number two
there's really not a huge chance for
failure right like stepping out into the
unknown as an entrepreneur really puts
us out on a limb and most entrepreneurs
have failed forward they've had ideas
that they've executed on that have
completely flopped and then they pick
themselves up and do it again and again
most people are so afraid of that
potential failure whereas entrepreneurs
who understand that growth occurs
outside of the comfort zone realize that
that fear that feeling of like oh man am
i doing this is this going to work
that's actually a good feeling because
that means we're getting outside of our
comfort zone and that is where growth
occurs so as you're moving forward in
your business in your
Marketing if you're feeling these or
even with a 90-day youtube challenge for
example if you're feeling this feeling
and your gut that's running around some
call it butterflies in the stomach and
like oh man I'm nervous
you can reframe this to where you can
start to think wow maybe that's what
excitement feels like maybe that's what
the feeling before growth feels like
because that's the feeling of the
boundary of my comfort zone and when you
truly believe I mean at a deep sense in
the core of your being that hey you're
here to grow as an individual and be
that growth occurs outside of your
comfort zone you begin to look at these
kind of biogenetic responses to being
out of your comfort zone fear and doubt
and nervousness and the butterflies in
your stomach as a good thing and when
you have those feelings you're like aha
there's that feeling in the pit of my
stomach this is a good thing so one
example is when I did my speech in front
of about a hundred entrepreneurs or so
at DM s s here in Bali you know the
moments before going on and when they
were announcing me and they were doing
my intro man I got this feeling in my
stomach the butterflies were fluttering
around but I've trained myself over the
years to think that's not nurse that's
not nervousness for me at all that's
excitement that's excitement for me to
go do something that I haven't done
regularly or enough to where it feels
normal
right like going to your job every day
if you're working a job right now when
you first got that job you probably felt
excited or nervous or you had all kinds
of emotions when you were going to the
job for the interview the first few days
maybe even the first few weeks but after
a certain period of time you get in the
comfort zone you get on autopilot and
those feelings go away and that's your
body telling you that you're not growing
and as an entrepreneur we need to
continue to grow in order to continue to
a expand what we're doing and be to be
of service of others so one quick story
about how this is playing out for me I'm
actually starting my abundant circle
event tomorrow here in Bali I've laid
out well over five figures on the line
of my own money in order to rent a nine
room beachfront mansion here in Bali
I've flown out private chefs I've flown
out
videographer to help me document this
process and I'm bringing together I
believe 13 entrepreneurs in order to
help them with their business now this I
love the experience right like the event
and getting to really dig deep into
people's businesses and these are these
are some really really high-end people
right we're talking like they're doing
half mil million a year plus type
business owners and I'm really able with
my skill set and what I understand about
marketing I'm able to help these people
really grow their businesses because
they're implementers and they always
they already have a really solid
foundation built so I love the
experience of this five nights getting
the other six days we're going on a
yacht I'm just we're I'm really going to
pour myself into each of their
businesses to try to help them to grow
the businesses but here's where the the
whole like out of your comfort zone part
comes in the logistics of booking out an
event are like so challenging to me
right so I've got to sell the spots I've
got to choose the location I've got to
find the my chef I've got I've got to
bring people together I'm coordinating a
team of people I'm coordinating
locations and arrival informations and
you know my goal is to make this a very
I guess it's like a white glove
experience so when people show up
they're just absolutely catered to it's
the true feeling of abundance for them
but for me on the inside I got a little
bit of running around like a chicken
with my head cut off like I'm all over
the place because there's so many things
for me to do but this is actually really
a good thing for me and here's why
number one it's getting me outside of my
comfort zone right it's getting me to do
things book events that I've never done
before which brings up all new
challenges now if I get to continue to
do these really small events in the
future
I don't know am I gonna scale up to
where I'm doing events in hotel
conference rooms with a hundred 200 500
entrepreneurs I don't really know but I
know this is going somewhere and I know
that I have a message to share with the
world and I know that a lot of people
want more information from me and more
access to me and I really enjoy doing
this in person when people want to go
deeper so I know that there's a path
leading me somewhere here and this is
just a part of me following that path
and figuring out where it's actually
going
so that's really kind of the biggest
thing and I'm totally out of my comfort
zone
now it's not the experience right like
the teaching that digging into their
businesses the the figuring out what in
their content or where conversion
mechanisms we can increase kind of their
business and help them double their
business that's actually the easy part
it's putting everything together that's
actually been challenging to me and it's
kept me out of my kind of comfort zone
the really cool part is now that I'm
this is my second year of doing this
I've got a building a team around this
and I'm probably going to be able to
pass off a lot of the logistics in the
future but that's how it's been with
every aspect of our business I now have
a designer a developer customer service
people layout designers editors copy
editors writers all of these individuals
working on our team but here's the
kicker
for the beginning I was figuring
everything out on my own and I had no
clue how to install WordPress I had no
clue how to install or change a theme
how to customize the theme or what PHP
was no idea at all that was the limit of
my comfort zone then we're talking five
seven eight years ago that was me
late night like man I want to customize
this theme I want to move this over here
within my WordPress theme that was
completely outside of my comfort zone
now today not only can I go in and make
all of these changes to a theme that I
want like theme hack any WordPress theme
in a heartbeat
I've actually got a guy to do that for
me so I've broken through my comfort
zone to where that became my normal and
then it got so easy that I replaced
myself from doing that task with another
individual who now handles that task for
me so I can once again get outside of my
comfort zone and keep moving forward in
growth see I believe that there's two
states of being in this world we're
either growing or were dying and about a
year and a half ago a little under a
year and a half ago was when I decided
it was time for me to grow into being a
content creator that's where I started
this 90 day video challenge and that was
way outside of my comfort zone it just
felt awkward the first few times I've
made the videos now sitting down here
with you finding a little spot at the
resort I'm staying at to get this shot
and communicate this idea with you this
is fun and easy but yet I'm still
continuing to push that kind of comfort
zone through on stage speaking
Vence I got booked for another event
that's gonna be happening in Europe I'll
update you with information once we know
the dates of that event I'm running my
own events and masterminds so I'm
finding new ways to push through my
comfort zone to continue that growth
process and the cool part is the side
benefit of all this is audience growth
and as I continue to be of service to
you and my audience that does generate
income for me so it does have a business
benefit through all of this but
ultimately it all comes from continuing
to push through that comfort zone and to
grow as an individual and as an
entrepreneur so if you're going through
challenges right now you're trying to
figure out Facebook Ads you're trying to
do your 90 day challenge and it feels
hard or maybe you're you're ready to do
your first Facebook live or your YouTube
live and you just feel all these nerves
in your stomach you're like oh man you
actually maybe you didn't even do it and
you turned it off and decided not to
because those feelings were so strong
you're going to feel the feelings
there's a book I've never read the book
but I love the title it's called feel
the fear and do it anyways and that's
such a kind of a great motto for someone
who wants to continue to grow in their
life because you're gonna feel these
feelings anyways and you're gonna have
to break through and push through to
accomplish that goal whether it's
becoming a content creator becoming an
active or a successful Facebook
pay-per-click marketer becoming an
affiliate marketer whatever it is you're
going to feel those feelings so begin to
train yourself to notice and observe
when your body is having those feelings
that you may be used to kind of call
nervousness or fear and start to just
realize that that's actually the feeling
that's my biomechanical feedback for my
comfort zone which means this is a good
thing so if I go through and do that
challenging thing and I go through that
difficult moment and I get into it
deeper that means I'm in the area or the
realm where growth occurs and then you
begin to invite these feelings and
you're like I'm gonna do another YouTube
live even though it makes me feel this
way I know I'm growing as a person or
I'm gonna make another video seven days
a week I'm gonna go for a hundred and
twenty days on my video challenge and
not 90 because I know
that is where growth occurs it's
different for everyone so you got to be
a little introspective to figure out how
this fits in with you and in your
business and in your lifestyle but just
know start to train your bodies start to
be observant of your biomechanical
feedback when you're feeling those
feelings that a lot of people call fear
and scary and oh no that's actually your
comfort zone and when you break through
and get to the other side it becomes
easy you experience growth and you start
to look for those next opportunities for
growth just as I'm about to break
through and have a wonderful experience
with 12 entrepreneurs from all around
the globe helping them grow their
business because I broke through all of
the bits and pieces and the challenges
and the doubts of um I gotta fill it am
I not should I do this should I not is
it worth my time is it not all those
thoughts and doubts were creeping in I
did it anyways and Here I am one day
before we start I'm excited about it I
of course feel a little interesting
biomechanical feedback but I've trained
myself to call that excitement and I'm
excited to dig in because I'm not
focused on me anymore it's all about my
guests at this point and it's all about
me helping them grow their businesses if
they don't walk away with an exact plan
of implementation to do what's required
to double their business within the next
year I feel like I've let them down so
I'm all kinds of fired up and excited to
push this forward so figure out where
that is for you if you're just getting
started maybe your comfort zone is
installing WordPress and installing a
theme and writing your first blog post
you've been doing content for a while
been doing marketing for a while maybe
cutting a video and publishing a video
and starting a 90 day challenge of
videos maybe that's where you feel all
those kind of like I can't believe I'm
doing this type emotions and that means
that is where your potential
breakthrough is and on the other side of
all potential breakthroughs right when
we go through those feelings sometimes
things flop and that's okay but we still
seek out these opportunities for growth
we push forward and we see where it
leads us because eventually if you have
bitchu 8 these things like I've done
here
that videos become easy and it is
opening up doors for me the connections
I'm making I'm helping people in amazing
ways through this channel which are the
feedback I'm getting just enriches my
life and it's fulfilling but I'm getting
these really cool speaking opportunities
now I'm being able to bring people
together in these luxury
mastermind retreats that I'm putting on
and life is getting more and more fun
and that's all been because I've pushed
through my comfort zone time and time
and time again in order to continue to
grow and then I've followed that path
where it has led me today at this moment
it's led me to this moment with you I
thank you for your time I'm here in Bali
it's pretty amazing to be able to live
this lifestyle and had I remained in my
comfort zone in my hometown never moved
out of my hometown going commuting to a
day job that was safe and secure because
there was a paycheck associated with it
if I never broke out of that mold and
decided you know what I'm gonna take a
risk I'm gonna go live as inexpensively
as possible in New Mexico I moved to
Albuquerque New Mexico I was living for
two hundred and eighty five dollars per
month I grew up in the Bay Area mind you
so that's a big difference in cost of
living and I kneeled down for years and
years and years as inexpensively as
possible to figure this business game
out it was a constant path of growth for
me and I'm so thankful I did in the
moment there were some very very
challenging times there were some
breakthroughs that I didn't feel were
breakthroughs I felt like they were
break downs in the process but that's a
part of the game and I'm so thankful I
did so if you're on your path know that
these growth opportunities are great if
you're feeling those challenging
emotions reprogram what you call those
in your mind those are opportunities for
growth those are excitement those are
the feelings of your comfort zone and
you are about to have a breakthrough and
when you focus on those breakthroughs
and the value you get as a person and
your audience gets from you continuing
to go through these breakthroughs it's
no longer about you the fuel feel the
fear and you'll do it anyways because
you've got a bigger y
I hope this has been a helpful video for
you if it has give me a thumbs up if you
made it to the end this was fairly long
about 15 minutes longer than I expected
hashtag badass to you for making it to
the end because that means you're
willing to invest your time into growth
and that's what it takes it takes
growing at all costs that's what every
entrepreneur goes through regularly if
you haven't subscribed yet definitely
hit the subscribe button and I'll be
putting up more videos I put about three
videos a week that probably will be
going up soon and when I get back to the
u.s. in just over a week I'll get back
on my
my YouTube lives once I get better
internet access will start doing photo
reviews and ad reviews and other fun
question and answer sessions live once I
kind of get this home office home studio
dialed in until then be well thank you
again for your time thank you for your
attention I do appreciate it
greetings from Bali I wish you a great
day and I will see you on the next video
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