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How To Motivate Yourself - It's Up to You!


The question is how do you motivate yourself when no one else believes in you?
well
my friend Dan Locke says there's two answers of that question the politically correct one and the freaking truth and
I guess I'll share both of you with both of those with you
The politically correct one is well, you've just got a hustle. You got to keep your head down
You got to keep grinding. You got to know where you're going
You got to know where you're at and just keep pushing and pushing
That's a politically correct answer the truth is if you need somebody else to motivate you then you're not that motivated to begin with
That's the plain truth
so
high-performance people they're
Self-motivated. Do you know so many people?
Look for the family for support, you know
Use their wife or their spouse or their children or their family. You know, why though?
Why don't they support me in my in my venture? Why don't they understand what I'm going through? I'm doing this for them after all
well, you can't expect that don't expect that support because
More often than not they don't understand what you're doing and it's not their job to understand it
It's their job to reap the benefits of your hard work when you become successful
That's why we do this. Remember the air is very thin at the top
Well, you have to you have to learn to be alone without being lonely. And that's just the path of the
Entrepreneur, that's just the path of the marketer of the long hours
At night after your nine-to-five working on your son
You're on your business online of the long hours by yourself in front of that computer
Grinding it out and trying to figure out what works for you. Nobody else is there with you and honestly guys
Nobody else really cares you have to care for yourself. You have to care for your family. That's just part of being an online entrepreneur
It can feel lonely. You're gonna be alone all the time doing your thing doing your business creating, you know
Your your dream and and and that way your family can benefit from that
or your loved ones can benefit from that but don't expect their support because they're not gonna support what they don't understand and
That's the biggest thing that holds people back. They're trying to create their online business. It's not really the you know, the the business
How-to or the know-how or you know or the technical stuff, you know, it's being able to operate
By yourself being able to operate
Alone without getting the permission of the people around you like your family or your loved ones
and a lot of people fail because
They use that as an excuse. Well, I didn't get the support that I needed from my family
That's why I failed at affiliate marketing or I didn't get you know that the support of my wife or my husband
Because had he given me or she given me the support I needed then I would have been a success
Well, that's BS guys
Okay
You know
You've got to understand you. Took this road this journey
By yourself because you wanted to make a difference for you and your family. Well, you're gonna create by yourself
You're gonna work by yourself. You're gonna you're gonna be successful or you're gonna fail by yourself
Now when you do become a success because of all the hard work that you've done by yourself
Then your family
Will then be able to reap?
The benefits of all the hours that you've put in and all the time and effort that you have
Really grinded it out in late hours of the night into the early morning
Building yourselves funnels building, you know, your landing pages building your capture pages
Creating your email lists and your autoresponders all those things that they really don't want to know what how to do those things
they don't want to know the details of that and
They shouldn't because they didn't ask
Just to join you when you decided to create your online business and start this journey
They didn't ask to accompany you you did this on your own
Guess what guys you can expect that support? Okay, your family loves you. There's no doubt your children. Love you without a doubt
What you're doing, they don't necessarily have to love or understand you love it. You understand it
You know what you need to do to get there
so it's holding you back if if if you're having problems and you're failing an affiliate market in a lot of cases is because you're
You're waiting for something. That's not gonna happen
you're waiting for your family and your loved ones around it to understand why you're doing this to
Appreciate the fact that you're doing this you're waiting for that and that's not gonna happen
okay, and that's one of the reasons why people fail is because
You know, don't don't they understand. I'm doing this for them
Don't they understand that I want to make more money for our family and our lives and our children
Don't they understand that that's why I'm failing because they don't support it. They don't understand it
No, the reason you're failing is because you're waiting for them to understand and that's not gonna happen
Okay, once you embrace that idea and accept it
Then you can move on into the next step of your affiliate marketing business. Okay, we're all human
We all want to be loved we all want to be supported but in this particular business and that's why
Not everybody does this because it's you have to be wired differently
You have to understand that affiliate marketing or digital marketing or an online business
Takes a lot of lonely long hours of work
sacrifice and dedication
Without the pat on the back without the hugs without the Haga, you know, you're doing a great job
You know
I really appreciate that time and effort you're putting into this business so you can better our
Family you're waiting for that and that's not coming and it's not gonna come
I'm not saying you don't have supportive supportive family
But they're not gonna support something that they don't understand that you decided you wanted to do on your own
And guess what you're on your own you've got to admit that and you've got to accept that
So your question might be well why why don't they support me?
Well the reason they to support you because they don't understand what you're doing. They don't you know, you're taking the path
You know that's less traveled
You know most families and most you know family, you know, most support groups within your families, you know
They want to feel safe. They want to feel comfortable
They want you to you know, because we're all grew up with that way
We all grew up with that mindset of okay you go to school
Okay
and then you go to college and then you work a nine-to-five job and you do that for 35 years and
You're getting your hit and you punch that clock and you make that paycheck
Well, that's the mindset of most people so when you deviate from that from that comfort zone that most people want
Then they're not going to understand that but that's okay. That's not their job to understand that
their job is to
step sit back and
Again when you become a success to reap the benefits of your hard work
That's when they'll understand
That's when they'll reflect and look back at all the hours that you spent in your office or or wherever you're at
Creating your your, you know, your business or creating your YouTube videos or or or creating your sales funnels
that's when they'll understand and they'll reflect and look at that in their mind and say
So this is why he did this. So this is why she sacrificed her time
This is why he spent so many hours
Doing this so that we can have what we now have so that we can enjoy it. We now enjoy
Now I understand but through the process of getting to that point
do not expect anybody to understand what you're doing because
affiliate marketers and digital online business people are
unique creatures
Again, it's it's not something that's built for everybody
not everybody's going to do this because not everybody is willing to sacrifice the time and the effort and you know, and and
not getting the support that well most humans and most people want while they're making my well they're making
efforts to create something
So so most people are just gonna quit because of those things
well the difference between the successful digital marketers and online business people and the people who quit are
The people the people are self-motivated. They don't really need to have that support and
Pat on the back and and an understanding of AI under appreciate. I really appreciate what you're doing
I understand what you're doing and you're doing it for us and I love you for it, man, and we don't need that
We all need love but as a business person
We don't need that because we have a vision and a goal in mind and nothing's gonna stop us from getting there
You've got to remember that
So people can get scared anything that deviates from the norm which is you know, like, you know
Get a job get a mortgage, you know work to your 65
retire anything that deviates from that
Ok, people aren't gonna understand that
Ok, and being an affiliate marketer and being an online business person an entrepreneur
deviates completely from that so that's why you can expect
The support that we all want when we're making efforts to better our lives
You just have to understand that and you have to agree with that and embrace that
Once you're ok with that and you embrace that idea
you can then move forward to the next step and
Really really create your business in a successful business at that
And then just look at the other people around you that aren't your family, you know your friends the people you work with
and the reason they they don't never give you the support because you know, you're
You know
They're living paycheck to paycheck you're trying to deviate from that and do something different and do something special with your business
Do you really think that they want to support you?
Support you and really applaud you in the chair for you living in that
Mansion and driving the cars you want and having your freedom of time because of the effort you're putting in there
Do you really think they're going to support you for that while they're living pay check the paycheck?
Hell no, they're not. So remember that guys don't expect the support from the people around you and
that's what's so unique about being an affiliate marketer and being in this business is that
You create everything you create all your failures. You create your successes
You create your business, but at the end of the day if you stick with it
You will create a successful successful
business that can reap you
All the benefits of all the hours and hard work that you put into it if you do it
Right, and if you don't expect anything in return from the people around you because you shouldn't expect it
It's not has nothing to do with not caring about you or not feeling you know
Love towards you that has nothing to do with this. This is human nature
okay, and
once you identify that and
Understand it then again. You can move past it because
Don't use that as an excuse for your business not being a success
Do not use the people around you your loved ones your family members your friends your co-workers
Do not use that as an excuse for it for the reason you are not a success at your online business
Okay, the only reason you will not be a success for online visit is because you're holding yourself back
You can point your fingers all day long to anybody around you
But again, they didn't ask you to start this journey
You did it on your own. They didn't ask to accompany you on this journey. You did it on your own
They didn't wake up one day and say you know what?
I want to go ahead and and and accompany you and help you with your with your online business journey
I want to spend four or five hours in an office at home
Creating videos and creating funnels with you. They're not interested in that
Okay, your number one job?
And your number one goal is to be successful in spite of all the things
around you all the negative energy around you and
the negative energy
Our people that our loved ones that's not coming on purpose
Okay, again, it's human nature. So you can't blame them for that
okay, but we think differently as affiliate marketers as
Online business people and entrepreneurs we think so differently
we think that there is something better out there and if I work hard enough and I and I
Sacrifice I can get there and if I learn and take action on a daily basis
I can get there other people don't think that way we do
so don't expect everybody to think the way you do and that's why we are so special and so unique and
You are just as special and just as unique as anybody else in this business
So remember that guys remember that you have to motivate yourself
You have to understand that the people around you although they love you and they care about you
Aren't interested in what you're doing in your online business and they're not going to give you that support that we long for
So get right with that so that you can move forward in your business and get past all that guys
I know this is a little bit of a hard-hitting video
But I I saw I saw some information on
Another video just like this and it really hit home with me. So I wanted to create my own video
and remember this channel is all about making money online and affiliate marketing, but it's also about
Mindset and motivation, which is a big part of being an entrepreneur and an online business person
So if I can help you in any way?
Understand the way our minds work and the way the the minds of the people around us work
Just from my personal experience. I want to share that on a daily basis or whenever I have that opportunity
So I really appreciate you watching my video
Thank you for subscribing to the channel if you are a loyal subscriber
and if you're new to the channel welcome and I'm gonna put daily videos out on
Making money online in affiliate marketing but also on mine set
Motivation so that we can all enjoy a life of time
Passion and freedom, this is Victor Paredes and I'm signing out and i'll see you on the other side

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