How To Change Your Model Of The World [Mindset Motivation] #Best Education Page #Online Earning

hi my name is Stefan James and today I

want to share with you how to change or

update your model of the world also

known as your entire experience of life

pretty heavy subject but I want you to

stick with me because by the end of this

video you're gonna look at your life in

a very different way you're gonna look

at your reality and experience of life

very differently and also those around

you now I want to lay some groundwork

for this video not lay a foundation and

shares you an important concept that I

don't want you to forget and that is

that the map is not the territory I'll

say that again the map is not the

territory what does that mean you might

have heard that before it means that we

all have a mind map we all have a

blueprints a model of the world and this

is made up of our ideas our knowledge

our beliefs our values our references

our experience of life and this map that

we have is our reality for the most part

it's how we see and look at the world

but it's not the territory it's not how

things really are

it's basically our interpretations our

beliefs and how we represent the world

in our experience around us if you've

ever had an experience with someone

where you have a difference of opinion

you get into an argument or a fight or

you disagree with some someone about

something it's because you have a

different map a different model of the

world than they do ok now there's three

things that our brain is constantly

doing number one is deleting things our

brains are primarily deletion tools

we're deleting 99% of what we can be

taking in around us because our brain

can only focus on so much at once before

getting overwhelmed we only have a

certain amount of bandwidth okay if

you've ever had an experience where

you're upset you're angry you're unhappy

in your life it's because you're

focusing on and fixating on one thing

and you're deleting all the things that

are happening right now in your life or

in the past or in the future that you

could be happy about that you could be

grateful for if you're upset and you're

unhappy with your life it's because

you're

whirring and deleting the fact you could

be grateful for being alive you can be

grateful that your heart is beating a

hundred thousand times a day without you

even have to think about it that their

digestive system your liver your kidney

all the different functions your body

are operating and keeping you alive and

doing this job that there's certain

people in your life your friends and

family that love you and care about you

that you've got all these great things

going on for you but you're not gonna

see it because your brain again is gonna

delete that and focus on one or two

things at a time in the same way if

you've ever been happy in your life

fulfilled and you're you know you feel

that your life is going great is that

really the territory no that's just your

map because to be happy you're also

deleting all the things that you could

be unhappy about in your life in any

moment right you know there's a good

saying that what's right is always

available so is what's wrong okay you

could focus on in any moments in any

moment of life let's take humanity right

now in this moment there are people that

are being killed right now there's

people that are raping other human

beings right now there is acts of terror

happening right now in the world there's

people lying and cheating and stealing

ending horrible things and you could

focus on that but in order to do so

you've got to delete all the great

things that are also happening the world

right now as well and if you focus on

that and you might come up with certain

generalizations or beliefs that the

world is a bad place there's a lot of

problems in the world okay but at the

same time what's wrong is what's

available but also so is what's right

right now in this moment you could focus

on all the people that are succeeding

that are accomplishing things that are

changing their life that right now in

this moment there are people that are

falling in love there are people that

are making love

there are children being born right now

in the second as you're watching this

video there's parts of life that are

expanding and growing and becoming more

and so you focus on that you might have

a totally different experience and you

might you know it requires you to delete

all the horrible things that are

happening in the world right now as well

because again you got to remember our

brains can only take in

much information and focus on so much at

once but by focusing on the positive and

the good you're gonna create different

generalizations beliefs that will serve

you in your map and model the world it

might be that Humanity is great that

life always progresses and moves forward

despite whatever challenges might be

going on see we're always deleting

things but also always creating

generalizations and all beliefs are

generalizations

okay so we have experiences throughout

life and based on these experiences we

created a meaning or a generalization a

belief system okay let me give you guys

an example and by the way I hope going

deep on this with you guys but I really

want you to stick with this to

understand it because you're gonna get a

breakthrough in understanding how your

brain works and in the end of this video

I'm gonna show you how you can take

charge of your brain and how you can

program it and condition it to serve you

to be your slave and serve you in your

life to help you create the life that

you want but first I've got to help you

understand how it works and why your

life is the way that it is why you have

this experience of life and why you're

not getting what you want out of life

because your map and your model is not

gonna get you to where you want to go

unless you change it expand it update it

okay very important now

we're generalizing things if you had an

experience before you know let's say

that you know you have an experience and

a man or a woman cheats on you you're in

a relationship you can create a

generalization a belief that says that

all men are cheaters

right or all women are cheaters now that

is gonna be a part of your Mac but is

that the territory no of course not okay

is it true that all men are cheaters is

it true that all women are cheaters of

course not

but because of one experience you've

created a generalization or belief

that's a part of your blueprint if

you've ever tried to start a business

and you failed or didn't work out you

can generalize and say that it doesn't

work or if you've ever had an experience

where you and

stood in something and you got scammed

right they didn't return their money or

didn't work for you okay you can create

a generalization that says that you know

oh there's all these scams that are out

there that every different thing is a

scam right or or I'm a failure right

because he filled once or twice before

in the past is that true no it's not

true

okay that is your interpretation the

meaning that you created which you

turned into a belief a generalization

that is now a part of your blueprint

your model of the world your map is not

the territory it's not how things really

are

right just like an actual map you know

the an actual map is not actually the

territory you know there's experiences

that we have when you walk you know down

the street and that the actual map does

not account for cars on the road or

trees or a lot of things that are

actually there but you're not noticing

or seeing right sometimes you know if

you ever had the experience you're

walking down the street and you notice a

store that was always been there but you

didn't notice it until now right it's

because your map didn't include that

store in the first place and that was

just an example of your map expanding

see you have to be careful and

understand that that most of these

beliefs we have are generalizations or

number three they're distortions we

distort experiences of life I mean if

your ever had an experience where you're

walking down the street let's say that

you have the belief in your map and your

blueprints that people don't like you

okay

and you walk down the street and there's

someone that's walking towards you let's

say it's an attractive woman or

attractive man and you try to make eye

contact with that person and they just

you know walk faster as you're walking

by them now you might decide to distort

that experience and decide that it has a

certain meaning which is that again that

people don't like you no one likes you

right and you're gonna use that

experience and distort it to reinforce

your existing belief system your

existing model now is that true

no because you distorted it what you

didn't see was maybe that that person

had headphones on and that there was a

bus that they're trying to catch and

they're in a hurry right and so you

didn't see that you distorted that

experience so I want you to understand

that a lot of the experiences that you

have a lot of these bullies this map

that you have is not the actual

territory and what really matters okay

this is this is the gold nugget now I

want to give you guys what really

matters the most important thing is does

your model serve you in your life is it

useful is your map getting you to where

you want to go is it allowing you to

experience the life that you really want

to experience because for me that's

always the most important thing is I

want to make sure that the beliefs that

I take on do they serve me in my life do

they empower me do they help me expand

and become more of a human being do they

allow me to contribute beyond myself and

serve the world Humanity in an

empowering way you know back when I was

in high school my model of the world

mind map my conditioning was that I was

a loser that I was shy that I you know

didn't have any friends that nobody

liked me that I was alone right

that was my model that was my blueprint

was that true no no that was just a

stories that created to myself in my

head how I've taught myself and learned

all fears are learned but it can also be

unlearned all beliefs are learned and so

therefore it can also be unlearned okay

you've conditioned yourself to be a

certain way to have this model and once

you understand that it's not the

territory and how it is and that you can

update your map and you can change it

you can create you know new roads on

this map to get you to where you want to

go a lot faster and the way you look at

the terrain the territory can actually

empower you you can look at it in more a

more positive filter and that by

updating your map then you can filter

your entire experience of life and a

more empowering and positive way that

will change your life in so many ways

more than anything else out there okay

so it's very important to make sure that

you

stay in this that you can create

whatever belief systems or values or

thoughts that serve and empower you in

your life to help you create a better

quality of life what value does it add

to my life by believing that I'm a loser

by believing that I'm shy by believing

that I'm not good enough by believing

that I'm not intelligent by believing

that I'm poor and broke by believing

that I don't have the time to do

anything does that serve me in my life

does that actually empower me does that

empower you of course not in fact those

very belief systems are what would keep

you stuck and living the way that you're

currently living and not allowing you to

break through and actually change your

life you know I might oftentimes tell

someone listen you might believe that

you're not good enough but if I said you

know let me give you guys this this

metaphor your brain is like a computer

okay and you can upload to that computer

whatever software that you want you can

install whatever apps that you want okay

you have that choice but most of you a

way of looking at this is you're you've

got this amazing piece of hardware

called your brain which is capable of so

much you know you can change your life

you can achieve anything with it but

your software the apps that are

installed on it are outdated

they're old you've never examined them

before in your entire life and even have

any any awareness of this and not only

that you got viruses and malware and you

got on that system that you've

never wiped out you never cleaned it

before you've never updated or changed

it okay

so your brain is like a computer and you

can program your brain and install

software and apps and update it so that

it can actually empower you and serve

you so let's say you've got this

computer and installed on it is the

software the belief system that you're

not good enough that you're a loser that

you're not intelligent that you're ugly

and all these horrible things that

you're gonna fail and that you're gonna

get rejected and no one's gonna like you

and you have all that whatever your

limitations are those are all installed

on that computer those beliefs that

computer is not going to be able to it's

not even gonna try anything it's gonna

filter experiences of life and say oh

that's a scam or that's not gonna work

or I can't do that because of this

because I'm not good enough I'm not

smart enough I'm too old I'm too young

whatever it might be so it's not even to

take any action it's not gonna do

anything and also that programming is

never gonna get you to a prosperous life

it's not gonna get you to be happy it's

never gonna get you to be fulfilled or

financially abundant and tell you change

the software so let's say all of a

sudden what we did is we wiped out on

your computer there's negative

disempowering beliefs and I installed on

your computer the belief system the

software that you're good enough that

you are abundance that you're wealthy

that you're attractive that you're

intelligent that you're confident okay

that you can set and achieve anything

that you set your mind to that you're a

giver you're happy you're fulfilled

you're grateful you're an amazing human

being now if I installed those onto your

system you might say well Stefan none of

those are true this is my reality this

is my experience of life it's your

experience of life because your model of

the world in your blueprint is

continuing to allow those faulty viruses

and malware to continue to live on your

system okay but if I install that you

are rich that you are abundant that you

are successful that you are confident

all those sort of things your behavior

is going to match that your behavior is

gonna change the actions that you take

are gonna change and will actually lead

you to manifesting and creating all

those things that I talked about which

will therefore reinforce those beliefs

that you have it will reinforce your

model of the world right so a lot of you

your your have this programming this

belief systems that you're a failure

you're not good enough you're stupid

you're ugly all these sort of things and

you're trying to change your behavior

you're trying to change your actions

instead of changing the software and the

beliefs that will therefore determine

the

actions that you take automatically so

you always got to make sure you update

and change your model of the world first

before because the behaviors will follow

that okay so you got to make sure that

you're aware of this and you are

consciously programming never never

never stop thinking of yourself as broke

as a failure is not good enough don't

even entertain those thoughts don't even

feed into it don't even give energy to

it's okay don't even acknowledge those

those aren't inserting or empowering you

those are stories that you've created or

you've had references that you've

generalized or you distorted information

or misinterpreted things to believe

those things but they're not true

whatever you decide to believe is gonna

be true and real for you and empower

your life and so if that's the case you

might as well upload and install

software belief systems that will serve

and empower you that's why I love

affirmations that's why I love saying to

myself again and again and again

positive phrases and quotes to ingrain

and internalize and upload upload them

into my psychology you know all the

greatest people throughout history all

did affirmations in some shape or form

Muhammad Ali called himself the greatest

before he wanted anything you know Walt

Disney saw in his mind first and had the

belief of what was possible through his

imagination and he believed that your

imagination is just a preview of your

life's coming attractions but they

changed their blueprint their model of

the world first you have to update or

change it because if you're failing in

your life if you're not where you want

to be then I can tell you what the

problem is your model of the world is

not getting you to where you want to go

and you're gonna continue to try you're

gonna continue to to try to lose weight

you're gonna continue to try to build a

business you're gonna continue to try to

go out there and meet someone but you're

not gonna create the change that you

want until you first create the change

up here the internal world must first

change before it changes in the outer

world so you have to

update expand your model of the world

and you got to understand that everybody

has a different model of the world one

of the best ways to expand it is more

experience the more things you

experience the more things you try and

do you get different perspectives you

know I'm a I'm a Christian I'm a very

spiritual man and I have a lot of

incredible spiritual beliefs that serve

me in my life

and I've always wanted to make sure that

I understand all the different religions

all the different spiritual beliefs out

there you know there's a great quote for

a great principle from Stephen Covey

which says that seek first to understand

and then to be understood it's a

powerful thoughts as a powerful belief

you know imagine in humanity if human

beings we decided instead of judging

which by the way when you're judging

someone else you're just projecting your

model of the world onto them and you

believe your ego believes that your

rights that my models right and

therefore this person is wrong so I'm

going to judge them right you see this

all the time on YouTube or in comments

and whatnot people are judging and

saying this or that they're making these

generalizations oh that's a scam it

doesn't work or he's like this or that

you know they're basically just

projecting their mind files their model

out there but it's not the territory

territory but they act and pretend that

it is right and so first what if we did

this instead we first seek to understand

and then to be understood we decide you

know what I want to understand everyone

else's perspective and then I'm gonna

foreign my judgment my beliefs based on

the information that I've gathered you

see I don't want you to ever be a

follower I want you to be a student I

want you to be open and listen to what I

have to say and other people around you

as well and then you make your own

decisions about what to believe and you

decide does this something that I want

to allow into my model

the world and to my map do I want to

update my map and upload and install

this software to my computer okay that's

how you want to take in information

rather than just blindly following what

you know anybody else says you got to

use your intelligence your emotional

intelligence as Daniel Goleman says to

decide is this gonna serve or empower me

in my life so I'm a spiritual person but

I want to understand all the different

beliefs out there so I've studied Islam

I've studied Buddhism of study

Taoism I've studied Hinduism I've

studied you know different forms of

Catholic belief systems I've studied

atheists because I want to understand

their belief system as well I'm not

gonna judge them and say oh my way is

the right way and therefore you're wrong

and everyone else is wrong but me you

know that's unfortunately what happens

in the world and that creates war

creates tension creates arguments and

fights and people killing each other and

unfortunate a lot of it occurs because

of religious beliefs but other types of

belief systems as well

but it's a difference of a model of the

world a different blueprint so if we

first decided you know what I'm not

gonna allow my ego to believe that I'm

perfect or um you know this is you know

my way is the right way I want to

understand everyone and I want to

understand this person's model of the

world and I want to understand okay they

have this belief system or that belief

system and I can decide you know what

their model doesn't serve or empower me

and that's fine you know I don't expect

everybody to buy into my model of the

world I'm sharing with you guys my

beliefs and my values and the things

that have helped me get to where I'm at

today and things that I've also learned

in study you know when I model people

and I find people out there which has

been my life's work for the last 15

years I want to find people that are

geniuses people that are successful that

are happy that have mastered every

aspect of their life their health their

mind their emotions their finances their

business their spiritual life their

relationships and I want to understand

what is what can I take or extract from

their model of the world

and I can decide I want to upload that

to mine right that's for me what the

learning process is about the path of

mastery is I want to model the beliefs

the maps the models of all these people

out there that have what I want they

have a great experience of life then I

want to extract and take that for myself

and if it serves me it benefits me I

want to share that with you and other

people that could potentially benefit

from it as well right but most people

don't even have this awareness most

people in your life and no freaking idea

what we're talking about here right they

don't even know they believe that what

they believe and they've never examined

them their own entire life they've their

beliefs and their model often times this

from the assumptions of a kid growing up

experiencing life as a kid from their

teachers and your parents and observing

now that what they told you and you just

buy that into being who you are and

you've conditioned yourself to be that

way you can stop it or change it in time

that you want you just got to understand

you expand your map I'm gonna ask

yourself if you have a problem or

challenge in your life ask yourself is

this just my map or is this actually the

territory and how it really is I think

that will give you a different

perspective and someone says Stefan I

don't have the time that's not true

that's just your model of the world you

obviously do have time we all have time

if you're alive you have time you have

24 hours in a day you have seven days a

week we all have the same amount of time

it's the only thing that's equal so when

you project that belief and you make

that generalization it's not true it's

not the territory you're just deciding

you know what we all decide different

things of what we're gonna do with our

time you know you can decide you do

different things you can prioritize

different things in your life and how

you want to use your time but it's not

true that you don't have time you do you

know all these things are

generalizations you know all quotes you

know these motivational quotes you hear

are also generalizations because I can

poke fault in every single one of them

you know if you use the motivational

quote I've used as well as a belief who

you spend time with this who you become

well I can find examples where that's

not 100% true the past does not equal

the future well I can find examples

where that's not true everything happens

for a reason and it serves me I can find

examples where that's not true how you

do anything is how you do everything I

can find examples where that's not true

so the question is not whether or not

they're true is it useful does it

empower you does it serve you that's the

most important thing when you decide

you're gonna take on something is it

gonna serve you in your life

now sure if you guys a story before I

wrap this up I was coaching this client

years ago great guy good-looking guy but

he had the belief system in his model of

the world that women weren't attracted

to him and so therefore he didn't have

many experiences with women and he was

in his 30s and he was still single and

alone and he came to me for help and so

because he had this belief I recognized

it he wasn't even aware of it at first

but he had this belief and what would

happen was he would go out and we'd go

together and he'd be talking to girls

and he talked to this one girl and for

me observing I'm looking at the body

language and I'm you know paying

attention to things and it looks like

it's going great you know they're having

a conversation for 10 minutes she's

laughing and smiling she's leaning in

her body language is very open and

afterwards after that conversation and

went up to him has said great job you

know it looked like it was going really

well and he saw things in a different

way he said Stephanie no you know she's

not you know women aren't attracted to

me so you know she wasn't attracted and

I said what are you talking about you

know she was smiling and laughing look

like it was going great so anyways we go

on to the next conversation same thing

the same thing happens you know a

woman's smiling and laughing and sure

enough he had a similar interpretation

where he said Stephanie no no she was

just being nice you know she probably

had a boyfriend right he would not allow

himself to see how things really were

because his belief system was creating a

blind spot and not allowing him to see

and therefore he believed that his map

was the territory

it wasn't so sure enough you know the

night goes on and he you know he talks

to this one girl is gone great you know

they're having a great conversation for

30 minutes and he ends up getting her

phone number and then afterwards he says

Stefan no you know she's just being nice

to me it's probably a fake phone number

now this person this person was not able

to see his belief systems were not

allowing him to see what was right there

in front of him it was not allowing him

to see how things were really happening

because he had an experience where a

woman did not like him rejected him once

or twice in the past and he created a

meaning from that and distorted that

experience to believe that women don't

like him a generalization or belief and

therefore he's spending his whole life

with that belief system interacting with

the opposite sex seeing the opposite sex

and and projecting the fact that they

don't like him that women don't women

aren't attracted to him it's not until

you changes that belief which he did

that would change his entire experience

and not until he shifted that to then

therefore believe women are attracted to

me and I am an attractive person when he

made that shift now he could all the

sudden see what was already there but

his mind never allowed him to he all of

a sudden was able to attract women into

his life and see and appreciate it and

he became more attractive just with that

belief system alone because our beliefs

our way of being or energy our state is

infectious to everyone else around you

around us it's contagious and if you

change the way that you look at things

the things that you look at change

I'll say that again if you change the

way that you look at things the things

that you look at change your entire

experience does so my friends I want you

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