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How I Recovered From Failed Business [My Story, Tips, QNA and Journal Reading]


so guys let's talk about depression
sadness gloominess all these words today
and I will tell you my own personal
experience of dealing with it okay I
wouldn't say that I was in depression
but definitely there were a couple of
years of my life which really damaged to
me that is what I'm going to talk about
today in the video this video is again
divided into some parts first of all I
will be talking about what is sadness
how do we deal with it
secondly I'm going to ask you some
questions after asking you the question
I'm going to tell you a couple of tips
that you need to follow if there is this
continuous feeling of something lacking
in your life
all right then after that I'm going to
be reading out my journal to you okay
this journal is very important to me and
it has really helped me in coming out
from whatever I was into did I want to
share my life story with you okay so we
are sitting in 2018 and this is about
2016 that I'm going to tell you about I
was into my business and it wasn't doing
very well and it had already been four
years of me running it and things were
not really going really fine I had put
in a lot of money into purchasing a lot
of stuff and I did not know how to go
back and I remember how it felt and I am
Telling You every single day of my life
used to be so hard nobody really knows
about it because first of all I thought
nobody would understand and secondly I
just did not want to bother my family
with what I was feeling and this is
something very common which happens with
a lot of people a lot of people are
going through a lot of stuff but they do
not tell anyone in their family because
they don't want to upset them they don't
want to put them into any kind of
emotional stress I just did not know
that it is not going to last for very
long I never had this feeling that it
will collapse like that on my head and
everything is going to topple down that
I was not losing my hope not ready to
give up there was a lot of opposition
coming from my family from my friends
and I still just did not give up I was
holding on to that you know feeling that
I'm going to kill it one because you
have seen so much on TV on internet
where people are talking about the sad
stories and they are talking about the
various stuff that they've gone through
while building their businesses so I was
also into that mind frame but anyway I
understood a couple of things later on
it's not just about you what sometimes
the wrong choices that you make the
wrong kind of work that you pick up for
yourself and you're trying to put in a
lot but you are not really going into
the right direction but those things
unwind after some time so anyway then
what happened I kept on doing it and mm
and all these years 2013 14 15 16 I was
doing it along with my job because I
needed money to run my expenses so I was
doing a job and of course I'm a
chartered accountant so my job was
pretty good i I I would say it was above
average job and somehow I was managing
the two things to Candice and I was
perhaps not doing so well at both of
these places because it's very hard to
manage okay so anyway 2016 is the time I
lost my job okay because of course I was
not getting enough sleep
I wasn't properly eating I wasn't
emotionally very satisfied I was going
through hell if if I would say it that
way I was feeling this tremendous
pressure of proving myself to my family
to the people around me who had been
watching me for so many years now okay
and I know it happens anyway
I lost my job in 2016
2017 I lost my business okay so 1617 was
the last I was trying to make it work I
had to keep it up because you know
enough time and enough money had already
gone into something that was not working
for me so I had to take a call I had to
just get rid of this business because it
was holding me back it was not letting
me move forward now let me talk about
the real topics how did I actually
overcome my bad phase I've been asked
this question and very frequently people
want to know this from you you guys only
know this from now what is the reason
behind my happiness the worst is already
oh my that is my maybe I'm mostly
smiling sadness this gloomy face it's
not a mental health issue you are not
sick okay we are not sick but you need
help that I totally agree there is
absolutely nothing wrong in facing some
kind of a depressed situation for a
number of years of your life a lot of us
have faced pain will always be there
okay it's inevitable pain will always be
there but you should know how to use
that pain as an opportunity and you know
a lot of you feel that people don't
understand your situation you're right
people don't understand okay and you
know what it's okay
you are alone enough and capable of
coming out of it I had friends okay I
had my mom I had my dad who was
supporting me no matter they'd got not
very fond of my choices but they were
still there okay but at the end of the
day the fight is yours whatever is
happening in your life I don't know what
it is okay it can be some bad phase of
money problems or relationship problems
health problems the biggest of all
understand it is just a phase it will
get over okay if you are alive you have
the time to make it right for you okay
you have the potential it is like an
embrace in your system everything is
going to get okay trust me on that you
just have to keep taking one step at a
time just one step at a time that's all
I want to ask you five questions okay
and you are going to answer them for me
and for yourself more importantly for
yourself what does the happiness that
you're carrying inside of you are you
ready to take one step at a time be a
very important one are you ready to
forgive yourself are you ready to pull
up somebody each time somebody pulls you
down the most important question of all
will you give up or are you ready to get
up the point that you're watching this
video right now is an answer in itself
that you are ready to get up okay so
let's fight this battle together let's
talk about the five tips which are
really going to make a lot of difference
in your life so the tip number one that
I have for you is gratitude there are a
lot of things which are beyond your
control right but there is this one
thing always within your control and
that is being grateful okay start
mentioning to God for all the little
things that you feel are blessings in
your life
it can be a parent's it can be any
little thing it can be your air
conditioner it can be a nice phone I'm
not going to give you any single tip
that I don't follow myself exercise is
okay exercise is going to change your
physiology it is going to change your
body it is going to make you happy from
within alright you will feel more
confident and I'm telling you it really
helps I walk I used to walk a lot when I
was going through bad phase of my life
tip number three get outside
go and connect with your family members
go and connect with your old buddies you
might not want to speak okay but they
will have a lot to speak about there is
a lot always going on in everybody's
life they miss you they really do your
family misses you your mom misses you go
and spend time with them there is no
harm right check number four please put
on some nice music stop listening to the
gloomy songs and have some good times
with music it really helps okay
it helps me a lot and the last s right
Journal I write this diary yes and now
it's the best part of my video I'm going
to read out a couple of notes which I
had written in my diary I always had
this thing on my mind that I'm happy
everything is going to work out
everything is going to be fine okay and
I kept on believing into this so a lot
of office a lot of your strength is
going to go into believing something
okay you don't have to tell the facts to
your mind you just have to tell your
mind in your heart what you want your
future to look like thank you God for
always showing me a path today I don't
feel as lost as I was for your back life
has been kind and more than anything or
anyone you have been beyond generous
with me I am at peace and much closer to
you I had promised myself to devote
myself to my career and I see new
avenues opening up to me people who
matter are sticking by lesser
disagreements in fights I am good with
the thought let's see how the shapes up
need your support and love thank you for
being there I'm really grateful
lots of love Alina then there is
there's this one more note on the 4th of
January 2018 and I wrote it at 1:13 p.m.
it's about
doubts and insecurities and it's a nice
one so I read it up to you
doubts you care about become
insecurities so in the end it all boils
down to one thing do you care if you
care about the feeling that is
uncomfortable
which makes you very about the present
or the future that feeling makes you
insecure are my doubts more or my
insecurities mostly depends on how much
I care but ain't this a human limitation
God made human beings for fun
he made us unlimited and yet set out
limitations on every step of any avenue
we take the unlimited us with the
limitations of our own character
sometimes our fears
sometimes the crutches that the
hesitations sometimes even how much we
care or hate or even love should this be
a happy thought or should it make me sad
happy because it makes your right
exciting more fun with numerous flavors
of varied emotions sad because I know I
am unlimited but can never really
perform to my fullest because of the
trap set out in my way which acts like a
jammer I cannot see it yet it slows me
down
perhaps my life is my only best creation
the doings cannot be undone can only be
repainted upon if they think I'm stupid
I think they are morons the others might
compare their creations but at the end
there is no market no one would buy any
of our works yours is as worthless as
mine mine is as precious as yours love I
hope you liked this last piece of my
video and guys please stay connected
everything gets okay in the end if it is
not ok it is not the end
and it just don't keep up keep fighting
whatever battle you're fighting I don't
know your battle I don't know what
you're going through but I just know
that if we can all help each other all
of us can overcome whatever we are going
through whatever happens happens for a
reason if we have got to know each other
I don't know maybe through a screen okay
right now till the time I don't meet you
I am just a person who appears on your
screen whatever relationship this is it
is beautiful I look forward to talking
to you and I look forward to absolutely
meeting you one day this is it guys from
my end I hope you liked the video and it
could make a little difference in your
life please write to me whatever you
feel and I love you guys and I am very
happy that things changed for me and I
pray the same for you they change for
you as well let me know if there is
anything I can do for you or any help
that I can provide you with I would be
very very happy to do it okay so I'll
see you again and I'll sure put up a
nice video very very soon bye until that
time keep smiling and keep loving
yourself love yourself okay just love
yourself you're beautiful

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