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How To Speak English And Learn The Art Of Mastering The Language [With Bonus Tips]



hi everyone I am Alina raised and you're
most welcome to my channel guys today
I'm doing a video which is perhaps the
most requested video on my channel and I
hope you like it what I have done is
firstly I have divided my video into two
parts
wherein first I will be talking about
how exactly did I overcome my fear of
speaking in English and how did I
actually master the skill of speaking
fluently in this language okay and after
that I'm going to be talking about the
four monsters which you have to deal
with in order to speak fluently in this
language and gain an absolute control
over speaking in English okay I hope
this video makes sense to you and if it
does please leave me comments and
subscribe to my channel I'll be more
than happy to share my journey with you
the first thing that I want to talk
about is how exactly did I overcome my
fear of speaking in this language first
of all I had great amount of love for
this particular language I don't know
why somehow I felt this is something
that is absolutely within my control so
I thought why not and this came to me at
a very early stage of my life I guess I
was hardly in class 7th or 8th that is
when I actually started to work upon my
language actually I was studying in one
of the most horrible schools of my city
and suddenly there was some thorn in the
destiny and I got the chance of studying
in the best school of my city thanks to
my parents they really worked very hard
for it but anyway I'm not going to get
into that so I was put into the school
and this school was really amazing it
was a Christian school and a missionary
school actually it was a convent and
everybody in my class used to speak
flawlessly well they were so good at
this language and I was the only one
perhaps facing a lot of problem I just
could not gather courage to speak with
the other girls of my class with my team
and it felt terrible I will admit to it
it clearly felt very bad and you know
this has been a habit of mine that I
never really gave up on anything if I
wanted something I would work towards it
I really put in my hundred percent and I
actually conquered it so that is how it
happened with me I know it sounds like
I'm talking about going to some
battlefield with your bow and arrow okay
and fighting with your guns and all it's
not really that but you know what when
you are actually beginning on this
journey of speaking well in this
language
it really feels that way sometimes it
was painful it was very hurtful and I
used to be very scared I used to be very
fearful of how people are going to be
reacting to my way of talking or my
command over my language and there were
a lot of fears which I had to conquer
which will definitely get me to my next
part of the video where I will talk
about the four monsters that I told you
about and I'm sure this entire video is
going to definitely make a lot of
difference in your life
if you will take it seriously and if you
are ready to put in your efforts into it
I mean just go and grab it man it's like
right there in the open all you have to
do is just walk up to it the walking is
not going to be easy
are you agree to it it wasn't easy for
me as well but actually when I have you
know actually done it
I feel the great deal of confidence in
me and it has really changed my life I
tell you it's so much easier to find
work for yourself to find a job to you
know convince people for different
favors that you need from them
career-wise anywhere anywhere in life
you go it's going to affect your life
left right and center so if you do not
have that kind of command over the
language and you like it and you really
have a love for this language I'm
assuring you nobody can stop you from
in flawless English okay all right so
let's get started the first monster that
I want to talk about is self-doubt there
is this inbuilt habit in human beings
they always doubt themselves about
anything new they are going to do
whether it is unlearning to play guitar
whether it is learning to ride a bicycle
it can be anything you are always so
scared of beginning when you think a new
chapter of your life and trust me this
is not going to be different from that
it is going to be hard
nobody is promising you it's going to be
easy but yes it is going to be worth it
so you have to conquer that fear inside
you that doubt which makes you feel that
you really cannot do it because trust me
if I can do it if anybody out there can
do it
any of these cricketers or these
Bollywood guys if any one of them can
speak so well
even you can't nobody can stop you and
you know what these monsters will not
appear all at once they will appear once
you progress on this journey once you
have conquered the self-doubt then is
there the second monster that is going
to attack you this monster is fear of
public the fear of people you fear that
people are going to laugh at you they're
going to walk you they're going to make
fun of you talk behind your back
first of all first thing most important
thing nobody has the time man nobody
wants to talk about you nobody wants to
talk about me nobody is interested in my
life as much as I am okay so you are
interested in your life and that is
where you are responsible for your own
life okay it really does not matter even
if somebody temporarily laughs at you or
smiles when you speak something in an
incorrect manner or you use a wrong word
okay they might laugh for a while okay
but the point is it does not matter if
they are not crying if they are smiling
it does not matter please don't make
people cry you can make them laugh and
by the way who are these people these
people these people are your family
these people are your friends these
people are your work friends sometimes
they might be stranger the first thing
that you have to think about is are they
very good at speaking in English if they
are very good at it perhaps they have a
little chance of making fun of you okay
because you are still a beginner you're
still learning but if they cannot speak
that well they have absolutely no chance
of laughing at you and if they are doing
it it's like somebody mocking Shahrukh
Khan does it better doesn't matter -
shadowkhan if I laugh at him no it is
not because he is big okay so first of
all they have to be your level to make
fun of you if they are not your level
please just ignore them you are far
ahead of them why because you're at
least trying okay and by just trying
you're already ahead of them apart from
the people who have this habit of
smiling at others and making fun of
others there are many many other people
who really want you to succeed
it can be your family it can be your mom
and dad it can be your friends your
close ones okay they will be very happy
today you will start to show some signs
of improvement in this language all
right anyway it's not your mother tongue
right you're not supposed to know
English the way you know your mother
tongue right because it will not come
naturally to you obviously why will it
come naturally to you only one language
comes naturally to us and that is the
language which we learnt when we come
out of a Mama's right so that is the
language that will come naturally to you
all the other languages you will have to
work upon improving yourself let's talk
about the third monster which is fluency
so first of all don't even think ever
that you're going to be fluent in the
very first few days of your speaking in
this language it will not come man
the thing is fluency will only come once
you get a hang of the language okay
you're speaking it regularly in order to
gain
see the one thing that you can
definitely try is start thinking in
English stop translating in your head
see other xn times have admittance a
million key now if you will think in
attendee then you translate it into
English you will take that is going to
be a lag of a few maybe a second or two
which is going to break your fluency if
you want to be fluent in English all you
have to do is you have to think in
English I will come and meet you today
you have to think that you and then say
it there are a couple of things that you
can do in order to improve your fluency
in the language first of all is please
start talking to yourself in English I
know a lot of people talk to themselves
I talk a lot to myself okay so start
talking to yourself in English and that
is where your journey is going to
actually start I used to talk to myself
standing in front of the mirror you can
do that anybody can do that nobody's
gonna find out I'm not gonna find out if
you are talking to the mirror nobody's
going to laugh with you because there is
nobody else right then it will move on
to talk in to other people gradually it
will come to you naturally but initially
you will have to put in effort you will
have to make it a point that if I have
to talk to somebody
after talking English you can never
learn anything new if you are keeping a
distance from the thing right if you
want to learn guitar won't you have to
pick up the guitar you will have to
write can I learn guitar without
touching the guitar no I cannot
similarly if you want to talk fluently
in this language start talking in what
ever crooked English you already know
okay let the people laugh it does not
matter trust me if I would have stopped
when people were laughing at me I would
have never ever improved you have to
stop bothering about the world you have
to start bothering about yourself what
is inside of you okay if there is this
passion of learning this beautiful
language you have to start today in the
beginning you will have to convince
yourself but after that particular stage
is already past
when it will come naturally to you okay
you will have a choice of whether you
want to speak in your mother tongue or
you want to speak in English both the
languages are going to feel very
comfortable to you promised in the last
monster is keeping in touch with the
language that you learned if you learn
the language and you stop talking in it
which will definitely not happen but it
might happen if there is a geographical
change where you were living before and
when you started to live somewhere else
be very very aware do not lose your
touch with the language because if you
stop talking in English it will go away
again as I told you it is not your
natural mother tongue right so it will
definitely not be in there if you don't
practice it but this is it from my end
these are the four monsters I wanted to
talk about now let me give you a few
tips first thing start talking to
yourself in English point number one
second thing stop fearing to speak in
English God you have to watch series in
English so get a Netflix subscription or
better PI and Amazon subscription Amazon
Prime subscription start watching
English videos okay
there's nothing else that helps more
than that I swear on God it has helped
me a lot these series teach you exactly
how these American guides and the
British people they speak in this
language how do they exactly use the
language how do they play with the words
how to bury your sound along with the
words you're talking how do exactly
speak like cook blow this part is how I
can put it then you need to
series point number four people a lot of
times newspapers and stuff like that but
honestly I haven't done that so I would
not suggest that because reading
newspapers brings a lot of negativity so
I am totally against reading newspapers
you may choose to ignore me here but
this is how I am I don't read newspapers
I hate them apart from that I used to
write journal on a regular basis I don't
do that anymore but you can keep a
journal you can record your feelings and
your emotions in the diary that you're
keeping and do I need to say that you
have to do that in English of course not
and please start thinking in English and
think in English and write in English
and the last thing that I want to talk
about over here is it has taken me five
years minimum even if you're very very
good at your learning curve which I am
probably not even then it is going to
take you a minimum of three to four
years nothing less than that so if you
stop your battle during that period and
you stop continuing your urge to learn
the language everything will go away so
please don't do that all the very best
for your quest on learning this language
you guys are very very important to me
stick with me don't die let's not die
and let's have a lovely life together
thank you for watching my video and
please subscribe if you haven't
subscribed yet and I'll see you again in
a video very very soon bye bye

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