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3 Reasons You’re NOT Winning In Life | Stefan James Motivation #Best Education Page #Online Earning

3 Reasons You’re NOT Winning In Life | Stefan James Motivation


listen I know why you're feeling in your
life I know why you're not succeeding I
know why you're not winning in your life
and it might seem harsh what I'm gonna
tell you but it's the truth it's the
truth that not a lot of your friends and
family are gonna be willing to tell you
but I believe that every once in a while
we all need a little dose of truth to
wake us up to the potential of who we
can truly be the truth can set you free
it can change your life and I'm not here
to be your friend I'm here to be your
best friends because a best friend
someone that sincerely cares about you
it's gonna be willing to tell you the
truth even if it's uncomfortable to
support you but also challenge you to
become more three reasons why you're not
winning in your life number one you're
not a starter you're not an action taker
you're not taking any initiation in your
life they're being passive not active
it's like you're an extra in your own
movie you know the game of your life is
being played and you're sitting on the
bench and it's not until you decide that
you're gonna take action in your life
you're gonna start something you're
gonna begin you're gonna take that leap
of faith you're gonna get outside your
comfort zone and take a chance take a
risk and yeah you could fall down you
could fail but the biggest failure in
life is not trying not doing anything
you've got to decide that you're not
going to be the extra in your movie
you're gonna be the star of your movie
you know I work with people all the time
I shared all this content and videos on
YouTube my podcasts I've got over 25
million views and I share how to build a
business and how to you know change your
life and these different
things that can really change people's
lives for the better what percentage of
those people do you think actually do
anything with what I share with them
what percent share with people an
opportunity you can build this business
you can build that business you can
create this life for yourself you can
change this in your life less than 1% of
people do anything with what's shared
with them they can change or improve
their life for the better then much
rather play it safe in their life much
rather just stay in their little comfort
zone they have their fear paralyze them
and hold them back from their own
potential of who they could truly be in
this world if that's you you've got it
you got to wake up man you got to wake
up you're gonna get off YouTube you got
to get off your computer you got to do
something in your life stop being
passive all this free information that's
out there you know I've got about a
thousand videos here all this
information that's free it's helping you
but it's also hurting you because it's
keeping you your learning great things
you're getting great insights and ideas
but you're not you're not doing anything
with it you're just stuck in your head
man analysis paralysis you're more lost
more confused you've got too many
options you know it's called the paradox
of choice you got too many choices you
make no choice
you make no decision because there's way
too many options that you have you got
to learn how to be strategic about your
learning and I'll tell you what guys I
don't learn anything from from YouTube
videos or or free content that's out
there you know I'm taking action
throughout my life all day and when I
want to learn something I invest I
invest in a course a training a coach a
consultant something that is quality
that's not gonna get me confused and
lost and all over the map all over the
place that I see so many people are
trying to do if they're trying to build
a business
line you know I learned from aqui I'm
gonna learn from this person great get
this course go through step by step by
step I'm not trying to figure everything
out by searching a bunch of videos out
there and content and blog posts and
trying to do things the hard way which
only gets you more lost more confused
than ever
and gets you stuck be smart about what
you put into your mind and what you
learn but more importantly be one of the
few who do versus the many that just
talk or just sit there passively
learning don't be one of those seminar
junkies the person that goes to seminar
after seminar that goes through course
after course video after video blog post
after blog post but does nothing with it
so you have to be a starter take action
that's one of the biggest things that if
you get from this can change your life
in so many ways because action is the
only way that you change your life
action is the holy grail of life
transformation number two you're not
only just a not a starter but you're not
a finisher you're not someone that's
finishing what you start the non
finishers they've already dropped out of
this video by now something that could
change their life that watched it for a
few seconds 30 seconds a minute in
they're already on to the next video
maybe there's still some on here that
they're not gonna make it to the ends
because they never finish anything in
their life how you do anything is how
you do everything you are not showing up
here and I've shown up there you're not
starting here not starting there you're
not finishing what you say your
commitments in life I can guarantee
that's showing you up in many different
aspects of your life guarantee it listen
guys if you want to win a race you have
to start the race and you got to finish
the race
so many people they starts but they
don't finish you know they start a
project they start a goal they start a
task they start a course they start
something and then never finish it if
you don't finish the race you will never
win the race the non finishers are
losers losers they don't win anything in
their life they never get ahead because
they don't finish anything that if
you're gonna start something here's one
thing that will change your life if
you're gonna start something finish it
finish it if you're gonna start a movie
finish the movie I don't care if the
movie sucks build the habit of actually
finishing what you start in life if
you're gonna start a book finish the
book if you're gonna start a project
finish it I mean this is simple stuff
but you know so many people they just
start you know one thing after the other
after the other they don't actually
finish anything they get distracted the
shiny objects they lose focus they're
just repeating the pattern again and
again if you don't finish what you've
started whatever it is right now what
makes you believe you're gonna finish
the next thing that you start or the
next thing that you start or the thing
after that no because you're building
the habit of being a non finisher third
reason you're not a driver you're not a
driver you're not someone that is giving
it all you've got
you're half-assing it man you got one
foot in one foot out you know you're
already thinking of reasons why you're
gonna how are you gonna get out of it
why you're gonna fail why it's not gonna
work you know how many people I see if
they buy a course they buy a training to
buy something and they're already
thinking about how they're gonna you
know how it's not gonna work for them
and now I'm gonna get the refund and you
know if I don't make money in 30 days or
if it doesn't change my life you make
things work that's how things work you
know my business works because I make it
work
I make everything work in my life my
relationship works because I make it
work the key word there is I make it
work and when you're a driver you'll do
whatever it takes man you're gonna be
committed you're gonna go all in man you
burn the boat so there's no going back
there's no retreat no surrender there's
only only choices to move forward and
you've got your back against the wall
we're here in that situation and you
decide you know what I'm going to drive
I'm gonna push forward in spite of the
obstacles and in spite of the adversity
and challenges in life then if I fall
down so why I'm gonna get myself back up
it's not how many times you fall down
it's how many times you get back up
because we all fall we all fail but the
driver isn't discouraged by they keep
going they never give up those three
qualities guys being a starter being a
finisher being a driver those three
reasons are why you're failing why
you're not succeeding you can have any
excuse you want any reason that you have
but those are the three reasons that are
holding you back here's another one for
you guys ask yourself why are you not
succeeding in your life why look
yourself in the mirror dig deep you know
I could share with you an opportunity to
change your life hey build an online
business to change your life hey create
a morning ritual life do this do this I
can share tons of different things for
you whatever reason that you have I
don't care what it is oh I can't do this
because I couldn't show up to this
training because my you know my kids
kids kept me busy and I had this side to
do and I was too busy with this and I
had you know I didn't have money I
didn't have time to do this whatever it
might be whatever your reason
is write it down put it on your fucking
wall look at that every day that's the
reason why you're failing in your life
as well that's why you're not succeeding
oh but Stefan it's a totally legitimate
reason it's my kids it's fine
might be true or false whatever but the
reality is that's why you're not
succeeding you keep using the story that
it's your kids and your have to be you
know this and that and you have to get
your eight hour sleep each day or you
don't have the time you got to do all
these other things that you know are
important in your life that you're not
prioritizing what can truly change your
life for the better it is what it is but
whatever that reason or excuse is it's
keeping you stuck it's holding you back
it's not until you give up that story
and you decide you know what I want to
be a starter finisher and a driver that
you'll breakthrough and change for the
better what are you gonna commit to as
ice give me another video you watch you
do nothing with what are you gonna
change your life yeah you can exit out
this video be inspired for a moment move
on to the next video the next video the
next video nothing's gonna change man
nothing's gonna change until you look
yourself in the mirror and you decide
that I am gonna change get to that point
you're honest with yourself even though
it hurts take responsibility and
ownership that moment even though it's
painful can allow you to break through
to a whole new life so what are you
gonna do what are you gonna commit to
whatever it is commit to it now leave a
comment below let me shit let me know
what that is make it a public commitment
whatever you're gonna commit seal let's
make it happen always believe commit to
mastery take care
you

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