How To Design The Next 10 Years Of Your Life With Darren Jacklin #Best Education Page #Online Earning

hey everyone this is stefan from

projectlifemastery.com and today i'm

excited to present you guys with a good

friend of mine

Darren Jaclyn Darren is a world-class

speaker corporate trainer entrepreneur

investor philanthropist someone that

I've known now for nearly a decade and

has made a significant difference in my

life I've actually interviewed Darren a

few years ago back on my youtube channel

and a lot of people really loved that

interview they said it's very

inspirational and life-changing for them

so I want to just thank you Darren for

deciding to come back and to share your

message with my youtube channel my

podcast and I'm excited to talk to you a

lot about just how to design the next 10

years of your life and pick your brain a

lot of different subjects sure grateful

to be here

cool so do you mind sharing with people

a little bit just a bit about yourself

your story I know you've you know your

story just kind of getting into

self-development changing your life has

been pretty inspirational at one point

you're broke you're living in a tree

house I know you're suicidal at one

point my insurance in a small town in

Saskatchewan Canada Post called Swift

Current Saskatchewan Canada

listen 20,000 people in population you

know one high school to junior high

schools was born into middle-income

family failed grade one of public

education and then was diagnosed and

labeled within learning disability in a

reading disability so I was put onto a

drug called Ritalin as a medication and

right through grade one through grade 12

of public school I was actually put into

special education classes so I was

labeled at a slow learner special needs

kid and so by time I got into middle

elementary school I realized that you

know I was smarter than the school

system and that was misdiagnosed in

terms of my labeling and
so I was like a

little bit older I started to actually

play it as an advantage kind of

leveraging in business realized okay I'm

taking all these modified programs on

this small learners class in school I'm

being told it's one of the dumb kids in

class one in the school so I use it to

my advantage and so all through school I

struggled academically low self-esteem

very unsecure

learning to read this building when I

time I got into grade 11 I was late to

class one day my guidance counselor the

school teacher and they said based on

your academic marks apartment I graduate

from grade 12 and get your high school

diploma and so they told me that was a

throwaway kid and that really affected

my self-esteem even worse but to back up

I actually create my first little

business when I was 7 years old called

rent a kid I used to go out and cut

crass and shovel sidewalks with lumber

newspapers in mind every yeah and when I

graduated I did graduate from school

barely passed with help of some friends

of mine left Swift Current Saskatchewan

Canada went over to the Okanagan Valley

Vernon British Columbia Canada and I

realized I had no purpose

I had no focus I had no direction so I

did multiple suicide attempts to end my

life and I used to practice driving my

car at 140 kilometres an hour

85 miles per hour towards a telephone

pole and I used to people would talk

about visualization and affirmations I

used to visualize on premeditate suicide

because I wanted to do it right because

I thought I screw up and do it wrong I

might be disabled or in a wheelchair or

have a disability and then people Ashley

what happened you why in a wheelchair

why you disabled well I try to do a

suicide I didn't work I failed and so

that was my last suicide attempt I ended

up driving my car towards a telephone

pole missed the telephone pole on

purpose

and then stopped the car drove into a

Outreach place this place that had a

bunch of psychologists and people that

did victims assistance work went in

there and turn myself in and this lady

started to counsel me and coach me then

refer me to a Dale Carnegie program I

didn't know who Dale Carnegie was never

knew anything about personal rational

development you know I was label with a

learning disability and reading

disability so I had going to this hotel

one day in Vernon British Columbia the

first Asian hotel and I went walking

around the hotel looking for Dale

Carnegie I thought this human being was

alive and the late Tony he was upstairs

in room Sun up there there was this

course and I thought I'd been set up so

when in this course and ended up

enrolling to the program for 12 weeks

transformed my life in many ways

from there I got self development

program yeah 12 weeks they've been

around the world for many years they

operate some of you might remember the

book called how to win friends and

influence people and so the old car he

died and left this legacy and so and up

south of this program I couldn't afford

it was $1,200 at the time and so I am

doing a payment plan and I paid them off

over a course that was about a year year

and a half and the payment plan for the

program even the course is only three

months and what it was from there

some people who are very positive people

I said you should come to this

Toastmasters club yeah well I didn't

know what Toastmasters was it's one of

the largest professional speaker

musicians in the world and so I went

there and was very impressed that my

first speech I ever did with toast

matters after I became a member I was so

scared to do my icebreaker a 3 to 5

minute presentation I actually did a

whole calculation my mind thought okay

what's worst-case scenario what's

best-case scenario what's the upside

what's the downside I thought you know

what so I went and pulled the fire alarm

in the hotel because I figured if we

could you know get the members to leave

the hotel we'd be delayed and I wouldn't

deal do my icebreaker speech with

Toastmasters so I pulled the fire alarm

to the hotel because I thought you know

what Fire Department come I'll probably

get fined yeah but I'll pay the

consequences and it's because I was more

scared to actually do the speaking that

I was to do the maybe the firemen and

that started me off and then from there

you know I I invested in a company I

made a bunch of money in a bunch of

businesses and I invested this first

startup company I didn't do any research

no due diligence I was the cosigner all

the loans and all the lines of credit

and I signed with the bank called the

GSA called the general security

agreement and I didn't know what a GSA a

gentle spirit was but it cost me tens of

thousands of dollars to learn what it is

now so I got the lesson what happened

was my partners that were involved in

this startup company they weren't paying

the bills and because I was a cosigner

business back in the early 1990s

so everything was going by snail mail

and to landline phones and to answer

machines

well the collection calls in the and the

demand letters were coming by mail and I

wasn't getting that mail at that address

or the collection calls of that landline

phone number so after 120 days the bank

called the demand loan sent the bailiff

out to repossess my car which supplies

to the general security agreement and

all the loans Alliance credit any

investments and assets I had so I went

from there you know being lawsuit by the

banks having all this stuff taken away

from me my car repossessed to being

homeless on the streets living on

welfare now I'm under lawsuit by the

banks right so in Canada we only have

what a half a dozen major banks and they

all know each other and they'll talk to

each other it's small plug and so when I

would go to open up a bank account

nobody would touch because I was too

high risk or unsecured

and so I couldn't cash my welfare check

at any bank so I think with a Money Mart

and cash my welfare check there because

they would cash it with high fees and I

was living on the streets homeless and

it was unbelievable when I learned I was

hungry and and so what I would do is

during the daytime I was sleeping in an

apple orchard and then I would go into

the city and I had a library card

because they were free so I go hang out

in the library and I would go into the

business section as I forget that's

where the money is yeah who's got my

money where is it cuz he's a kid

yeah with my rent a kid was always

saying if I'm gonna cut grass and shovel

sidewalks and I'm gonna go to these

neighborhoods who's got my money and

where is it because they were gonna pay

me to cut the grass and shovel the

sidewalks right so I thought if I'm in

the library where do I go to get

knowledge to earn money to get my

situation turned around Wow and that's

where I started with the books like

think and grow rich but Napoleon Hill

we're just mad at Babylon by George

place him she said a lot of odd man Dido

Jim Rowland for sure right and that was

the starting point in my life early on

it's amazing yeah and you know I want to

ask you cuz I know one big thing that's

made a huge difference in your life has

been planning your life goal setting and

I think you know obviously that is kind

of a place where most people start to

have that vision you have to believe

that you can have something that you can

look forward to and be able to create

that and I'm sure a lot of those books

gave you that confidence and that belief

but how how do you what's your process

for planning out your life

yeah I'm sure do you mind sharing people

a little bit about this so what I do is

I I learned that if I don't have a plan

yeah I get easily distracted and I get

I'd take it off course and it creates

more stress it creates more anxiety in

my life

so if I have a plan and I know where I'm

going what I'm doing then I have

direction I have focus and I have a

purpose and I'm going towards something

versus a moving target to set specific

measurable an actual target so what I do

is I actually plan a ten-year plan I'm

working ten year increments of time and

that reverse engineer back from the

tenth year back to year one so first

thing is I do it and great exercise to

do is sit down and think about your life

if you could just have it off you could

if you can live life on your terms or

whatever that means to you and you can

write down 50 items or 15 things on a

sheet of paper and you write them down

so life experiences big travel goals

in ship goals financial goals spiritual

goals career business or job or multiple

income goals could be investment goals

real estate goals portfolio goals and

just write it all down on paper okay

it could be also who do you want to

become over the next 10 years so in

terms of habits you want to create

courses you want to take skills you want

to learn things awareness about yourself

what are habits you want to you know

take away from yourself bad habits or

things that are not supportive to you

and then also over those 50 things is

what are the things that you want to

stop doing okay so I look at things as

how can i leverage things and get other

people to do things they're to me or

lower priority activities but it might

be higher productivity I can hire them

for minimum wage you're above for sure

okay then what you do is you write down

50 things 50 items or 50 tasks and then

what you do is you look at okay what am

i one year so then you look at your list

of 50 and you say okay what can I

achieve on this list of 50 that I can

achieve in the next 12 months and you

put a number one be sign it

what can achieve the next three years

put a three be Senate then a five then a

ten year and it's there maybe your 10

plus then I look at my ad okay how many

1 your goals I have I write it down how

many 3 your goals 5 your goals 10 your

goals then when I look at I said ok out

of the 10 year 10 year plan

what are my top for 1 year goals out of

my list of whatever 10 or 15 goals ever

said of the 15 and then what I do is I

write down my top four goals then I

think the self and this is the key thing

I learned is that object okay so you

object when you have a purpose so the

object is this house yeah okay so you

might say I live in a multi-million

dollar penthouse or a beautiful home on

the beach okay so the purpose is

stronger than the object so people say I

want to have that nice fancy car I want

live in that nice penthouse that beach

home the thing is no what are the

experiences that you want to create with

your family your children entertaining

people maybe having different events

yeah and from that now your your purpose

is stronger than objects sure and then I

write I write down those experiences by

having that goal by having that object

yeah that basically helps you associate

the emotion to it because otherwise you

just say hey I want to have a lot of

money or I want to have this nice house

but you're getting more specific about

what that will give you

the experiences you'll be able to have

from it and when you get I guess clarity

on that and it gives you that fuel that

motivation to be able to move forward

and absolutely traffic cuz a lot of

people say well you know I want to earn

a lot of money and I want to buy all

these objects but there's no there's no

connection to that yeah we're saying

want to have a wireless money to buy all

these objects and have these experiences

learn these lessons or become and then

also is who do you need to become for

sure to achieve that yeah as your

character and I because success is not

something we go out the world to pursue

success some we attracted your life by

the person that we become so who do I

need to become in terms of character

skill set focus self-discipline daily

habits because my life you know when I

wake up in the morning I have a set

routine so I I control my mornings and I

control my evenings and sometimes

throughout the day is organized chaos

for sure right yeah it was long as I can

control my first so what I always say to

myself if I was a fly on the wall yeah

how would I observed the first three

hours of my day yeah because the first

three hours of the day set up my

structure my foundation for the rest of

the day yeah I love that and I think the

importance is when you when you're

creating that vision the long-term yes

and that gets you inspired that gets you

I'm really excited for something greater

that you can have but when you break it

down to smaller bite-size chunks because

a lot of people might say well that's

just so unrealistic for them it's just

they can't wrap their head around that

quite yet based on where they're at but

when you break it down and you just

realize what can I do today or this year

that's gonna move me in that direction

and I remember when I met Darren maybe

about 10 years ago or so and I I had the

big dreams and everything and not one

exercise that you shared with me was

really defining your ideal your perfect

day and then breaking that down and I

realized and I was broke and struggling

at that point in my life but I remember

part of my my ideal vision was to live

in California and I just said you know

what I'm just gonna go to California for

three months went to San Diego just

living in hospitai remember that and I

remember I would just you know one thing

I learned from you I know you're a big

fan of was just green building so I

actually you know go and look at the

houses and the neighborhoods and things

like that and it's amazing how that

vision over those last 10 years how you

know just by making small progress

you use get further closer towards that

and it's amazing what you can achieve

anything's possible yeah you know if you

have that visions break it down into

small bite-sized chunks well give an

example back in 2007 I said a 10-year

plan okay so I had made my ten-year plan

and and I had a 10-year goal and put ten

plus was to actually live on a private

island

yeah I said this back in 2007 and now we

just signed the paperwork a few months

ago for a private island down in the

Bahamas yeah and it achieved it within

10 years it was a ten-year goal and on

the tenth year the final year it came to

fruition yeah

through meeting people on LinkedIn yeah

okay I had no idea but but over the

course of those few years it prepared me

to start having the conversations

surround myself different people ranging

finances and structured a lot kind of

stuff over that period of time to put

things in place to make things happen

and it was really interesting over the

last few months as I reflected oh wow

you know back in 2007 I set that 10-year

goal and recording 10 plus years yeah

cuz I thought well man in my lifetime I

could ever achieve that yeah yeah right

because to me was ten plus years and it

happened within ten years

amazing and I think you know one thing

is having that belief for that too it's

almost like an inevitable thing that's

gonna happen I remember actually when I

first met you I met Darren because I was

hosting an event here and thank you

right about a hundred people at a

seminar and I had this idea I wanted to

invite these inspirational speakers and

I didn't know anyone and I remember I

someone told me about you and I cold

called you asked you to come speak at

the event you came and spoke you're one

of the most inspirational people there

and that's kind of how we started the

friendship but I remember there's one

thing you said to me we're at a

restaurant afterwards at a white spot

and you just kind of said very casually

you're gonna become a millionaire by the

time you're 30 mm-hmm and I was just

like like like wow that actually really

meant a lot to me because you saw a

potential in me and you gave me a lot of

belief and I was like wow you know what

I will and I made that my goal in which

I achieved but I find that that that

believe it do you think you get that

from

a lot of the self developments and the

books that you're reading and just kind

of reading biographies other people's

success stories or what gives you that

belief that confidence to know

especially when you're living in the

tree house

you know rock-bottom what allows you to

have that belief that 10 years from now

your life can totally transform so I was

in a Toastmasters meeting one day in

Vernon British Columbia fighting for my

life very low self-esteem tremendous

amount of negative self-talk I had

tremendous amount of fear I felt

invisible and walked around and I was I

was think I was around my third or

fourth speech in Toastmasters learning

and I joined Toastmasters to build my

self-confidence that was the main reason

why it wasn't public speaking now it was

just to build my confidence and my fear

and anxiety in front of other people

yeah because I got a guy's huge fear and

anxiety being around few because I grew

up in an environment in my school where

has always made fun of

I was always judged I was always put

down I was always lay with a stupid kid

you know the the throwaway kid so I had

all these you know believe Squad on my

head and Seward heart one day she said

she was the general value of this toast

management she said at the entrances I

wanted to my verse a minute and I want

to focus on Darrin Jaclyn was in our

group today another aw man don't put the

spotlight on me you know what I mean

I thought just like Carla at the table

yeah and she goes I want to focus on

Darrin Jeff I said what don't pick me

out please

you know you focus on somebody else and

she says I believe that this club has a

potential to nurture and develop Darren

Jaclyn into a world-class speaker at

that moment she believed mourned me that

I believed in myself because I didn't

see my potential yeah just thought it's

a complete stranger to me yeah and I

remember that day like it was yesterday

for me it's in January of 1995 and was

interesting was I knew that down the

road in my life if I could get my life

straightened out and get a structure you

get a foundation and learn to work with

my self-talk and my belief systems and

my self-worth and my confidence and

because I actually got throughout my

life I've actually the majority of my

life has been to prove something yeah

because I was always never good enough

yeah yeah so my drive has always been to

prove that I was actually good enough so

all my accomplishments success today

have actually been to prove myself to

myself into society and I knew that down

the road that if I was to turn my life

around that I would pay it for to pass

on and like yourself or other people

because I understand what it's like to

grow up with no self-esteem

very low self-worth go into a room and

you're told you're stupid all the time

never amount to much you're not gonna go

far you know go to school basically on

the short bus to school right living a

special needs education class for 12

years of my life and be told I'd never

amount to much never go far and then

today where I'd achieved a lot of

success in my life but the thing was

that I didn't have the mentors like

today yeah we have the Internet

yeah and we have coaches and mentors and

all these courses and workshops when I

started I didn't have anything yeah I

had myself in a room yeah I was flat

broke financially and I knew the

landlord was coming in for days I had to

find the rent or I had to find a place

to hide yeah and not that that was the

motivation you know there was times

right supposed to be my rent it's a must

for you yeah yeah - I know there's times

when the landlord were coming to my

house that was three months behind and

my land were walking around my place and

I was hiding in the closet there was one

time I reached the sink I don't even

know how I fit in there but I actually

put my body in turn eight the sink yeah

and I never see them again

okay I got myself in here how that car

made it myself I would and I thought

myself I'm not gonna really get on it I

was so crowded in there and I was just

holding you just for somebody didn't

know put the sink doors but I was

underneath where he put the toilet paper

in the toilet you stuff I was hidden in

that little room a little closet damn

ice off my landlord finds me he's gonna

throw me out and I just one day me to

see I said you know I'm not gonna live

my life this way anymore I gotta be

responsible I got and the defining

moment for me Stefan was I realized at

that moment that one day when the

landlord came in to get me was it nobody

was coming to rescue me I had to rescue

me because I always had this thing that

you know what my family will come rescue

me or societal come rescue me or

somebody I'll win the lottery or some

neighborhood come with me and I realized

that nobody's gonna come rescue me and

it was a defining moment in my life that

I hadn't rescue myself I think you're

you know I went I went several years not

paying my income tax because I only got

a natural now today everything is in

good standing but I've been around these

people that were anti-government and

anti-this and anti-that

I thought I'll just get around there and

play the victim right and he was I'm the

victim

yeah and how disempower I was in that

environment yeah okay and how much I was

contracting rather than expanding yeah

any one day I was in a restaurant went

down with a gentleman from a Rotary Club

and I was reading through the menu and

he says are you gonna order something I

said yeah he goes can I suggest

something - yes yeah just just picks up

on the menu and I said well I want a

moment he goes close your menu this is

what he says let me teach you something

young fella he said you were reading the

menu from right to left and I said yeah

he goes you're looking at the prices

first does he how much money you got in

your pocket before you decide what you

want to eat and I said yeah how do you

know because I used to live that way

because I want you to learn how to walk

into a restaurant and never look at the

price just decide on a choice of what

you want if they don't haven't make a

request to see if they can make in the

kitchen for ya yeah and I know one time

when I first started raising capital and

I went met with this very wealthy man

one day he says how are you doing

raising capital less I'm doing really

good he goes know how you're really

doing I said I'm struggling here's you

know why you're struggling because

you're going to environments where

people have no money and I said what do

you mean he goes where did you stay last

night I said I stay at the Holiday Inn

he was why and I said well my family

stay at the Holiday Inn he goes no

because they have free continental

breakfast the next morning because you

didn't have enough money to have a

breakfast right he goes guess what

people at that hotel don't have money to

write you a check to start up your

business because you need to start going

into environments even if you can't

afford get in that environment proximity

where people have got your money you

need to go to restaurants if you have

got the money you need to go even to

hotel lobbies where there's money in

that hotel so you pump into something

the elevator or in the restroom or the

lobby lounge that's got money that likes

your idea that understands it and it can

write a check for you or at least be a

mentor and advisory and it's like why I

never no one ever taught me that cell

phone raising capital yeah I saw you go

there talk to everybody join all these

meetup groups and go to all these trade

shows and conferences and

find so many money because no you're

going the wrong places you got to get

reverse you're cheating because you're

gonna become somebody yeah and then one

day I remember watching this guy one day

and he was hold on saying it was stop

because you need to learn something I

said what nações you need to realize

that I'm a successful business person

and successful people do not like being

sold

we'd like to be educated and informed

and at that moment I realized wow I was

kind of desperation right right and our

scarcity and lacked versus abundance and

prosperity and so now when I meet people

I don't I don't sell them I don't pick

them I ate them and form them and let

them make it

out of choice right and that's the whole

thing is that I remember one day I was

with a gentleman and he said to me says

you know can I tell you something I said

yeah and he goes you can become a very

successful corporate trainer and

professional speaker there's one thing

you need to learn this is what he says I

work in the medical industry and he said

if anyone write this down he said

prescription before diagnosis is called

malpractice

he says write down you sat down with me

you were prescribed to what I need in my

company before you even asked me any

questions and he goes so many people

decided they prescribed before the

diagnosis they go to the network that oh

my gosh damn and you'd be so great this

opportunity you're involved with this

thing you don't know about me he said

you need to listen and ask questions

before you prescribe and before he

diagnosed and he said just listen and

ask questions and then maybe submit a

proposal maybe have you do due diligence

and so these are these are powerful

things I've learned in my life yeah for

security for diagnosis malpractice yeah

it's awesome you know I think one thing

I've observed from people they're very

successful is you know you know yourself

myself we all hit rock bottom got to

that point where you hit that threshold

and then I think in that moment you're

willing to do whatever it took you know

if you didn't find the way you're gonna

make the way you're gonna you know show

up you're gonna find the mentors you

were gonna invest in the seminars the

courses or whatever it took and I find a

lot of people that I come across they

they're not fully committed they're like

not there yet and they often will say oh

I can't do this because of this I don't

at the time I don't have the money I

can't afford this and sure enough their

life is just gonna stay the same because

they're not really willing to do

whatever it takes and they haven't hit

that point yet where they have just

decided you know I'm gonna find the way

and you've been resourceful enough to

find the way to come up with the money

to meet that person to you know whatever

it takes to be able to get their key

talked a little bit about that what

makes that difference in someone who's

just so committed and resourceful that

all those excuses just go with the

window

I've every one day I was homeless but I

was up and down twice in my life one

time I was on welfare one time I was in

the live in a tree house and I member

one day I was flat broke and I and I

couldn't go to the food bank I couldn't

the soup kitchen to get food and so I'm

walking around the back alleys thinking

I'm gonna eat out of a garbage dumpster

for my next meal and I saw this Greek

restaurant it was a fine-dining Greek

restaurant and I saw that Cook was

outside smoking and I started talking to

him and I didn't look like a street

person that's willing I didn't do it i

disguised myself as I had to look yeah

cuz I had this image this ego but

looking good and I didn't want to look

bad so I do always look good right he

said people thought I was just calm cool

and collective rights like the guys

would walk around to fake jewelry and

stuff they're gonna look good right but

there's nothing going on for themself

right it's just they're financially

strapped yeah and the guy told me and

listen I need to get out of this garbage

dumpster I don't want to eat people's

food off their plate and he goes well if

you go to you guys what I'll do is I'll

put the food that we have excess food

that we're just throwing out it's still

good food we'll put them this side of

the dumpster for you can eat it so I

seen on the GAR servers but you see I

created a joint venture yeah right yeah

and then the thing was from there what

it was is I learned that when I was flat

broke see we don't have money problems

life we have thinking problems and the

biggest thing is is who number one is

what problem can I solve and how can I

be a go giver versus a go-getter

see I used to be a go-getter so when I

would when I built there hustling and

grinded with grit what happens I would

repel people because I was too intense

because I was prescribed before I was

diagnosed because I was trying to sell

them and pick some verses educate them

informed me because I was coming on more

of a desperation and scarcely in lack

right so I realized one day after lots

and lots of failures and adversities and

challenges by making mistakes and

knocking on doors and cold calling and

doing those different types of jobs for

Commission sales jobs was that you know

if I just if I just calm down and I

relaxed what about the person and I

listen I ask questions I get to know

more about the person remember fo RM

family occupation recreation money or

motivation fo RM as an acronym and get

to know what meals family their

occupation or career business or

schooling recreation what they do for

hobbies or injures or sports and what

are they do for fun money or motivation

and I would start to do these different

things with people when I would meet

people right but I was still terrified

always terrified right I'm I'm closing a

billion-dollar deal right now and I'm

weighing on my comfort zone I'm scared

all the time because you know you make a

mistake at this level that we're playing

with right now and it's a costly mistake

it's not easy and the thing is is that I

realized it every day when I got up I

had to read 10 pages they have a good

book that would elevate my life because

I knew if I read read 10 pages of day

times 365 days in the year

it's 3,600 pages which comes to 12 to 15

books of your cover to cover and I

realize there's so much negativity out

there every day that I'm gonna I'm gonna

focus on what's going on every day in my

mindset through a gratitude exercise

every day through meditation every day

through what I call my DML my daily

method of operation but I have to work

on myself

yeah and the more I work on myself the

more people want to connect and

communicate and do business with me yeah

and I know you're a big fan of morning

rituals as well as am i what is your

ritual my sermon people a few things to

show you first thing in the morning to

help prepare yourself to be the best you

can be that day yeah and these are

non-negotiable yeah so these are

non-negotiable in the world no matter if

I'm jetlag I can relate yeah it's it's

you know it's like right there with

breathing yeah why is it that important

for you because I know I've got a lot of

people I've got a course on morning

rituals and I know some people that are

not consistent with it why is that none

to go school because it's it I notice

what it will throw you off your game

yeah yeah well you know I mean it's like

it's like being constipated it's like

not brushing your teeth yeah okay it's

that's just what I do is first thing I

do I wake up morning I'm an early riser

all I get up around 4:30 5:00 a.m. in

the morning and I have to get up really

early it's quiet

that time of the day no distractions

absolutely the first thing I do is I

wake up and what I do is I look around

the room I'm in and I'm gonna pick a

spot on the wall and I'll just focus to

present myself to ground myself and it

may be 15 30 45 minutes all those folks

other thing and I just focus on one spot

on the wall so that my mind chatter

doesn't kick in and I just and I also do

is I just okay there I'm present I'm

grounded sick of meditation you bet you

and now I feel present my body uh and I

know and I know what I'm there yeah cuz

I look like no I look over here I'm over

here

you find otherwise you'll just kind of

your mind will raise but we got to do

that day or stresses or anxiety or email

or whatever it might be so present

myself got myself something to get great

no I'm not there yet no time there and

then sometimes I have to be looking at a

different spot on the wall or on the

floor of the ceiling

okay now I'm there and I'll sit there

and I'll say okay I'm grounded then

first thing as I do is I say thank you

so much for like my feet for then you do

all my feet everything you do every day

all gonna be you take thank you for my

fingers thank you for my eyes I look at

all my vital organs yeah to give thanks

on because my biggest thing is my health

in my lighter

right next to time and so I just give

thanks to things around my but we're if

we first I do this it feels really weird

it was really awkward and and the thing

is I just tried giving thanks Tiffany

about my body you know I'm grateful

because I fractured my ribs a few years

back and I never realized that me a

fractured ribs you're laying in a bed

you even cough even move throw away in

that sharp pain I thought wow I am so

grateful for my ribs and so I do I do

the gratitude exercise first thing and I

just give thanks two things about my

life Tony Robbins I know does a thing

called priming and then what I do is

when I get up I actually have a cold

shower new morning I love it and it

takes a bit to adjust to it and I have a

freezing cold shower yeah and I go in

for about two to three minutes now yeah

but the first time was like five seconds

if that out and now I've gradually built

up over the over quite a while and at a

freezing cold shower I also have in my

shower I have my I had to bring with me

today but I have laminated what I call

my my top ten personal promises to

myself and I actually would so a lot of

times he will call the goals or dreams

of targets I was mentored by one of the

wealthiest men on the forest fund list a

few years ago he just passed away but he

mentored me and I used to meet with him

he used to call in text message him and

he was a multi-billionaire him and I was

like a son to him and I just wanted to

learn from him and be mentored by him

and and he'd sit there and don't call

them personal goals call him personal

promises to yourself because you call

your goals a personal promise you're

making a declaration commit to you then

it's your you only the goal is not over

there yeah yes sir personal promise to

you yeah and so I read them every day to

myself every morning the shower

and I read them I also have 120

affirmations the other laminated that I

actually read every morning yeah I put

myself into a mental mindset focus state

I'm at 128 affirmations then when they

go to shower I click myself off with

that then what it is I have a journal

and I ran out my personal promises so I

read them in the shower but now I can

aesthetically I write them out my top 10

same personal promise to myself then

what I do is I have throat bodega Zaman

here I have daily project me tracking

sheets so I look at what are my top 10

highest priority activities that I'm

going to work on today or I'm going to

delegate so throughout the day no matter

what happens what are my top tech

tivities today that can be can be going

to work out in a gym it could be you

know connecting with detecting on a

girlfriend it could be you know

important phone calls it can be

preparation time it could be talking to

a certain person you know things of that

watching a video reading a book top 10

highest parties for the day now I mean I

get all my top 10 priorities done but

I'm making progress forward towards that

yeah okay and then what I do is I

actually read every morning 10 pages a

day minimum which I do if I'm driving

somewhere or I'm on an airplane I have

audible.com and I actually listen to

educational trend development programs

all the time because research shows in

North America at the average person with

19 years of age if they drive in a

vehicle or they're on public transit

they'll spend on average of 500 hours

per calendar year in commute time for

drive time which is the equivalent to a

college university semester of education

yeah so you can learn a second or third

language you can learn about finance and

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everything you need today is available

yeah what Eknath information okay I

listen to a lot of podcasts off in

Flutterfield and one things I do with

terms of my own trading development is I

don't go wide see most people they do is

they they start staying all these

different people might go very I don't

like this and I have two or three or

four people in a year that I study and I

go deep okay mastery so I go like so

just a few days ago I was given a book

as a gift from the from Andrew Carnegie

it was the book was written in in in the

late 1800s and it was only given to some

of this inner circle and the book was

bought at an auction this guy

a lot of money from this book and he

give it to me as a gift because I'm one

of his mentor's

and Andrew Carnegie signed the book in

1904 Wow and it's a collector's book

yeah and so I'm gonna read through that

book now from Andrew Carnegie you know

as you guys know it's it in his time

between 1901 and 1918 he give away

cooking today's dollars with 77 billion

u.s. dollars on our money today yeah

between 1901 and 1918 so I do that

and then what I do is I do my morning

questions so what am I most grateful for

in my life today who do I love who loves

me what do I appreciate value and then I

think about something in my life of

somebody that maybe is coming into my

life recently on social media or a

family member or a friend or it could be

a co-worker or something works with me

who's maybe struggling right now and it

could be a prayer I say about them or I

just send them love and gratitude and

blessings that this person has find

strength and they find guidance and they

find hope or that they find healing and

whatever they're going through so you

know because we all know people that

have got some kind of disease or a

relationship challenge or a job

transition or they're struggling

financially or you know loss of a parent

or somebody's died their life so I just

send them positive energy and I feel

grateful for that in terms of gratitude

and then I go about my day and then and

my day consists now is that I what I do

is I focus on because I'm an

entrepreneur what our revenue generating

or what our income producing activities

so I look at okay what are the things in

my career industries of the business I

have that are income producing or

revenue generating and what are not

income producing a lot revenue

generating then are more like minimum

wage activities and then what I do is I

write it on papers and at night then I

start to find it now when I first

started I couldn't financially afford

anybody to do this yeah so what I win is

I went to my local colleges universities

I went there in person went talk to the

receptionist I said listen do you have a

business department here at this

university or Community College and they

like yeah who do I need to speak to the

professor or the teacher of the

instructor where can I go to meet this

person so I go now and introduce

yourself completely

stranger to me and say hi my name is

Darren Jaclyn and you know again I've

got this little startup companies you

know I'm not doing much right to me it's

a big deal but to somebody else's you

know I started my kitchen table and I

said I'm

came to have somebody come in as an

apprentice who's one of your MBA

students or business ministration

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