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hey this is stefan from
projectlifemastery.com in this video
blog i want to share with you guys my
money beliefs or my money financial
blueprint if you would that support me
and help me to achieve my goals and
become successful financially and
abundant and I thought I'd share with
you guys what I have here that I've come
up with and it's kind of even just kind
of go through this process with you guys
and share some of the empowering beliefs
that support me because hopefully you
guys can model them in some way and it
can help shift some limiting beliefs
that you might have into more empowering
positive beliefs and really shifting
these beliefs by the way is the key to
anything because what determines our
behavior are our beliefs and if you
would have a lot of mixed associations
mixed beliefs that are in conflict with
one another then you're gonna you're
gonna have a hard time making money or
achieving any goal that you have as long
as you have those conflicted beliefs and
so I want to share with you guys some of
the beliefs that I have and you might
kind of notice some limiting beliefs
that you might have during this process
these negative beliefs are not even this
negative but they might be disempowering
or limiting in some way by me reframing
them you might have a breakthrough and
kanuk actually shift your belief to have
more wealth abundance and freedom in
your life
okay so what I have right here is a
pamphlet that I got from a seminar
called a millionaire mind intensive now
I've been in this seminar a number of
times changed my life in many ways to
highly recommend it I actually went last
weekend is it was like my third or
fourth time going but more so went it to
support my sister who I really wanted to
go and she had a crazy experience but I
was only there really for the first day
and they give you this pamphlet and they
have some exercises called money
Association exercises and what the
Association exercises are is you just
kind of fill it in the blank of what
they have here so for example the first
Association is money is and you fill in
the blank okay and in fact if you could
just think right now and just fill in
the blank of that and just even write it
down if you could if you have a pen and
paper and just whatever the first thing
that instinctively come
see your mind I want you to write that
down or think about that okay so what do
you think right away when I say money is
what money is what okay think about it
again money is come up with another
reason okay money is another one money
is another one because whatever you fill
in the blank on to finish that sentence
is what your belief is about money it
could either be empowering or it could
be disempowering and that if it's
disempowering then it's perhaps
something that you can look at okay
here's another one wealth is blank
wealth is blank how about this one rich
people are blank
rich people are blank okay so that's a
simple way to come up with what your
global beliefs are about something we
all have beliefs about money about
wealth about rich people okay and it's
really interesting to just kind of take
note of what those beliefs are and I'm
sure to you guys what mine are as well
and just kind of quickly go through some
of the questions that I have here but I
want to share that for me it was never
always this way I used to struggle with
money I used to be broke I used to be
massively in debt I used to live in my
friend's living room I used to just have
no ability to do anything I just always
working dead-end jobs and everything so
I struggled massively financially Mike
and beyond that my family struggled a
lot too which is by the way how we get a
lot of these beliefs from we get a lot
of these beliefs from the people in our
lives
you know our family our friends our
teachers our role models because you
start to adapt and take on the beliefs
of other people and then you start to
believe and think like they do and so
for me when for me growing up my family
struggled financially and my parents
went through a bankruptcy you know there
was always fighting about money I never
had there were certain things that I
wanted to be able to do as a kid and
wanted for Christmas for my birthday but
my family didn't have the means to
provide that so it's not like I had
these beliefs and I was born with them
I've developed them over time and I
continuously worked on myself and
consciously chose the beliefs that I
want to have and just drew massive
action and reading learning growing and
go to seminars having coaches going to
that process has helped me
if my believes to what they are now okay
so I want to share to you guys my
beliefs real quick for me the first
things that came to my mind where as
money is abundant okay I really believe
that money is abundant money is
everywhere and it's abundant second one
was money is easily made like I really
believe that money is easily made
especially when you have the right
strategy when you have the right tools
to make money if you have a poor
strategy and you have a job then yeah
it's very challenging to make money
because you're exchanging your time for
money right whereas when you have a
business and you have a vehicle that can
create abundance and wealth just like
that the money is actually very easily
made I've made tens of thousands of
dollars in a day you know it's I could
literally make money just by sitting on
email right now to my email list
promoting my own product or promoting an
affiliate product I can make money just
like that so money is easily made and I
have the references to support that but
that's my belief you know I really
believe that money is so easily made and
there was once a time where I thought it
was challenging it was hard you know is
once a time where I thought money was
scarce it was hard to come by and that
shift in belief has made a world of
difference for me money is freedom money
is freedom it gives you the ability to
buy freedom to to be free to have
freedom to do what is whatever is that
you want with whoever you want and be
financially free okay so does another
belief that came up for wealth is fun
and again I didn't logically think about
these answers it was just the first
thing that came to my mind wealth is fun
you know it's fun to have money it's fun
to have the freedom to be able to buy
things to be able to give to other
people to provide experiences for other
people be able to have a currency
something that can allow you to enjoy
your life and do whatever it is that you
want travel or whatever it is so money
is fun that's what came up for me and by
the way none of these answers are right
or wrong these are just a belief that I
have number five wealth is only made
through adding value okay that was my
response to the seminar wealth is only
made by adding value and I really
believe that's the secret to wealth add
more value to other people's lives than
anyone else will if you add value
whether it's a service of product and
you add more
you than anyone else that's how you're
going to be really wealthy in my case
the more value that I provide to my
videoblogs more value that I provide you
know writing blog post and everything by
creating products services coaching
people the more successful more wealthy
I'm going to become because I'm helping
more people at a greater scale and
really business is solving people's
problems at a profit so the more
problems that I solve for people the
more ways that I find add value the more
success one more money I'm going to make
so that was my belief number six rich
people are smart workers okay and I
laugh because I don't even know how
these answers came up is the first thing
that I thought but I was going to
originally write they're hard workers
and I was like wait a minute that's not
really true rich people are smarter
workers they don't necessarily work
harder than everyone else they work
smarter they find ways to leverage
themselves and create systems that can
automate and scale up so that they can
create more freedom more wealth rich
people are generous you know that was a
big one too rich people are generous
rich people are abundant to an extent
where they don't have to focus on their
own needs but they can focus on serving
and helping other people now as I just
said these you might be sitting there
thinking that's not true rich people I
know lots of rich people that are mean
and negative and are selfish right or
that's not true wealth is hard or money
is difficult to make or scarce or
whatever
and I want you to be aware of your
beliefs right now okay I want you to be
aware of the difference of your beliefs
in my beliefs now whose beliefs are
right or wrong
neither okay because the truth is
whatever you believe whatever I believe
or whatever you believe is going to be
true for you whether it's real or not
okay and so whatever you believe you
have it's not right or wrong but it's
finding whether or not something can
really serve you at the highest level
and empower you towards having the
freedom the wealth and abundance that
you really want in your life so yeah I
could think of people that are maybe
selfish they're rich but my belief is
that rich people are generous that's
just what I believe and therefore that
belief supports me and empowers me
because if you believe whatever you
believe about rich people are if you
believe that
people are mean or selfish or whatever
it is then guess what are you ever going
to become a rich person probably not
because you're not going to want to
become you know selfish and mean and
negative and an asshole right so you got
to be really careful about the beliefs
that you have if you believe that money
is hard to make money is evil its wealth
is bad or whatever then what are your
chances of ever having wealth what are
your chances of ever making money
what's your chances of ever being free
it's not it's not going to happen unless
you change those associations and its
beliefs that you have so that you're
empowered towards them okay does that
make sense
so the beliefs you have our key these
are is my belief so I don't want to get
to an argument about you know my beliefs
or whatever but these are just the ones
that support me and what came up for me
you know the next question they had was
the reasons that I can't or may not
become extremely wealthy are and for me
I laughed when I had this because I was
like none there's no reason whatsoever
why can't become wealthy there's no
reason why you can't become wealthy you
can't become free you can't change your
life you can't create anything is that
you want because any reason that you can
possibly come up with is just an excuse
it's not really true so it's a story
that you tell yourself is holding you
back from having the freedom to wealth
and abundance that you really want so
for me the first thing is just none
there's nothing to stop stopping me I
create my destiny I create the life that
I want I create the wealthy abundance
whatever it is there's no ceiling
there's no limit whatsoever I'm in
control of that I have the tools the
ability there's resources that have
programs there's coaches everything is
so abundant that if I really want to
change or master any of my life I can
next one was some of the possible
negatives about being rich or going
through the process of trying to get
rich are and my response to this was
interesting I wrote down there are
really none because the process makes
you grow and increases your value so for
example you know if you the negative
things of become the process of becoming
wealthy are that you're gonna have to
spend a lot of hardwork you have to fail
you have to go through challenges you're
gonna have to make sacrifices and all
that for me I don't view those as any
negative reasons what
because I think failure is a gift I
think challenges sacrifice the process
that you go through is actually what's
more important than the wealth and the
money because it helps shape you into
incredible human being it helps you
become more confident more resourceful
more create creative it helps you
overcome obstacles helps you become
strong or helps you find more ways to
add value so for me I don't do any of
those as a negative thing I look at the
challenges that I went through as all
blessings and gifts that I went through
because they helped shape me into Who I
am today
so next my greatest worries and fears
regarding money and wealth are and I
really thought about this and I thought
the first thing that I really thought
about was maybe losing it because if you
make a lot of money you might lose it
and then I realized that's not really
true because I can make it back because
I'll never lose who I'll become in the
process and that's a powerful thing is
is if you are just given money you win
the lottery you lose it you're screwed
right if you want to get in great shape
and you're fat and you get plastic
surgery or liposuction you lose the
weight guess what if you gain the weight
back you're screwed because you did not
learn and master the process you did not
become the type of person that basically
deserves and can earn that wealth or
that body or whatever it is so for me
I've never want anything to be given to
me you know I can make a million dollars
I could transfer my body and I'm never
worried about losing it because the one
thing will never lose is who I've become
in the process and what I learned and
with who I become that's an asset that I
can always create it back again and
again and again if I want to so that's
one of the most important powerful
things is who you become in the process
is more important than amount of money
or anything else okay now let's go over
to the next part so I've got a list here
of different beliefs about money and
you're basically it's a belief
questionnaire and you have to go through
each of them and you either disagree or
agree with them on a scale from one to
ten okay and as I went through this
process I started laughing because I
remember going through this process
years ago and now I've seen the
difference kind of coming from a
different angle of now
someone who's successful and makes a lot
of money as opposed to when I first went
through this I had a lot of
disempowering beliefs around money that
I create a lot more with okay so I'm
going to quickly go through these
beliefs there's a lot of them and I'm
going to kind of reframe them as I go
through them okay so the first one money
is the root of all evil okay definitely
not true I think money is actually a
gift it's a blessing you know the Bible
actually says a love of money is the
root of all evil because there can be a
negative side if you get too obsessed
love it too much but for my belief is
that money is a gift it's a blessing
it's a bill it's a it's a tool it's a
vehicle that can allow me to improve and
become better myself and also make a
difference to other people and help
other people so it's actually incredible
gift that allows me to become more and
give more it allows me to fulfill my
mission even more so I don't have any
ounce of me that money is evil
whatsoever it's more enlightened to be
poor than rich definitely not true I
know a lot of people that are extremely
enlightened that are wealthy I don't
believe it you're doing any service the
world by being poor your your you're not
compute not able to contribute as much
as you really could by being poor you're
not being an inspiration to other people
you're not being an example and so I
don't think that being poor means that
you're more enlightened in any way okay
most rich people probably did something
bad or dishonest to get their money I
totally disagree with that i think most
rich people add value to make money I
think that's the ultimate really the key
to making money sure some people steal
and lie and everything but ultimately if
you're doing it with integrity and
you're adding value you're helping
people that's what I believe is the best
way to make money and how most wealthy
people are most of all the people they
build a business they build a product or
service that provides value for other
people this solves people's problems and
helps other people having a lot of money
will make me less spiritual or pure
definitely not true I feel like I
actually become become more spiritual
and pure by having money because I'm not
as focused on my needs anymore and
supporting myself but I can actually
focus on developing myself spiritually
and growing as a human being and
actually give and contribute more as
well next getting rich takes too much
work and struggle definite
not true you know there's a lot of
people that if you work smart you don't
have to go to the struggle you don't
have to go to the pain if you're
building passive income if you're
building a system you can actually
really enjoyable it doesn't have to
require too much hard work you know I
know a lot of people and even myself you
know there's a lot of business the
income streams that I build right now
that I just build on the side and it's
just it's ridiculous it's almost too
easy sometimes how easy it can be to
make money if you have the right
strategy having a lot of money is a big
responsibility I definitely don't agree
with that either you know I think the
responsibility is actually good because
it forces you to grow and actually
handle more as a human being so I don't
think responsibility in any way is
actually bad next I don't feel good
enough to be rich such such BS you know
we're all deserving of being wealthy and
rich you're no more deserving than
anyone else you know it's just really
believing that you deserve it and that
you can create it for yourself I mean
you're put on this planet to have
incredible things for greatness you know
it's just you realizing that and just
being open to it and receiving it
realistically chances are I'll never get
rich such BS anybody can be wealthy if
they are just basically committed to it
and learn and grow whatever so anybody
can be wealthy doesn't matter what
circumstances you're in or whatever it
is anybody can getting rich is a matter
of luck or fate definitely not true you
create your own luck you create your own
fate by taking massive action by
learning growing by by creating
opportunity for yourself getting rich
isn't for people like me people that
believe that or never rich you know so
getting rich is for anyone anyone you
know if you want to make money you can
you know money can provide a lot of
great things for you it can enhance the
quality your life in so many ways it's
not going to make you money having this
make you happy having a certain amount
of money in your bank account but money
can give you the ability to buy
happiness through experiences so maybe
be able to give to other people to grow
and improve yourself or be able to
travel that can all enhance the quality
of your life and become
enhance your happiness and everything
and so I think it's ridiculous for
people to think that making money is not
for me getting rich is not for me I mean
we only get one shot to this lifetime
who doesn't want to experience it fully
who wants to struggle who wants to not
be able to be able to do what they want
when they want have the freedom and not
have to be through the pain of not
having money that can provide so I don't
think that's true
striving for wealth won't allow me much
time for anything else in my life
definitely not true you can have balance
while you're getting wealthy to be rich
you have to use people and take
advantage of them definitely not true to
get rich I think you have to add value
help people as I said before okay next
one if I get rich everyone wants
something from me definitely not true
most people don't really care that you
know they don't you know there might be
some people that might leech from you in
some way but for the most part it's very
rare next if I get rich there are
certain people in my life who won't like
it or me not true in my experience most
people are very supportive most people
are inspired by it most people are more
motivated by me seeing and actually like
any more if I have a lot of money I mean
someone else is going to have less
definitely not true money is so abundant
on this planet so I definitely don't
think that's true connects believe
having excess money means that you're
greedy definitely don't think that's
true I think there's nothing wrong with
being abundant after all you work hard
for your money or you work smart
you've earned it you deserve it so it's
up to you to choose to do whatever you
want with it I think people have that
right that earn it so I have no beliefs
that anyone's greedy for having more
money than anyone else I'm not very good
in the area of money and finances
definitely not true if you're committed
to learning about money and finances and
you will become good at it and it's
actually not that hard to learn or
understand if I get a lot of money I
might lose it so again not true because
you'll never lose who you are in the
process and even if you did you can
easily gain the money back if I really
strive for wealth and don't succeed I'll
feel like a failure
great you know everybody fails everyone
goes to the process of failure there's
so many lessons to learn and take from
failure everyone does fail it's
inevitable but it's a gift failure is
not a bad thing whatsoever it's actually
a blessing that can help you get further
towards your goals and anyone that
successful has failed this is not
indulging in the feeling of failure but
just learning from it see it as an asset
so I think that's a great thing I had
the potential for wealth all I need is a
break yeah everybody does have the
potential for wealth and if your
reactively waiting for the break or the
perfect opportunity or moment to become
wealthy you're going to be waiting a
long time you have to create the
opportunity for yourself you have to
take action and be proactive instead of
reactive and as long as you do that you
will get lucky you will have to have
that break next this just isn't the
right time for me start going for it
financially that's also BS because
people that put things off and say the
time is not right are going to basically
be waiting forever the time is never
going to be right it's never going to be
perfect or ideal time to get started
right now I don't really want to be
wealthy I don't think that's true either
I think a lot of people you know these
for myself they want to be wealthy they
want to create abundance and freedom but
they almost kind of hide the desire
because they have those negative beliefs
that hold them back and they make things
acceptable and okay so that they can
other people to approve of the standard
that they're at or they're afraid that
if they become wealthy or they have some
sort of belief that other people might
not love them or respect them that's
usually always some sort of conflict
there I think it's human nature to grow
to to expand that that's a law of the
universe if you don't grow we dies so
money is this one area that I believe
that we all there's nothing wrong and we
shall all be encouraged to become more
free and abundant in connects money
isn't really that important people I
believe that generally don't have money
whatsoever I think money is extremely
important money is something that can
provide a lot for ourselves our lives
freedom abundance to be able to give to
grow it's just an incredible vehicle
that can really enhance your life so I
think money is extremely important it's
the one thing that everybody works there
are most people eight hours a day forty
hours a week
we give up and sacrifice so much of our
life to make money for our survival and
to be able to do certain things so it's
ridiculous to think anybody might say
that money's not important
you can't strive for wealth and be happy
fulfilled at the same time definitely
not true I believe that you don't have
to achieve to be happy you can happily
achieve I think you can enjoy and love
the process of making money and being
abundant money can cause a lot of
problems definitely not true money can
solve problems it's not right to make a
lot of money more than my parents
definitely not sure I think your parents
would be inspired and motivated and
really proud of you if you actually did
better than them I think that's what all
parents really want they want to have
their children be successful and do well
in this lifetime so I've no doubts my
parents want that for me you can't get
rich doing exactly what you love
definitely not true I did what I love
you know in fact the more passionate
about you are about something the more
energy you going to put into it towards
it and the more love you have the more
the more you're going to be successful
at it because you're going to find more
ways to add value and it's going to be
something that really fulfills you at
the same time trying to earn money is a
hassle and the struggle definitely not
true making money as I said before is
very easy if you have the right strategy
if you've got a really poor strategy
you're going to struggle it's going to
be hard you know if you've got a
strategy of you're going to try to
become a millionaire you're going to
work a nine-to-five job at McDonald's
then yeah it's going to be really
friggin hard and a struggle if you start
your own business and you build systems
and passive income and something that
can scale up that you love to do and
you're passionate about then it's not a
hassle it's not a struggle it's actually
very easy you just follow the steps and
just are consistent with it it takes
money to make money definitely not true
I've had many times I've had no money
whatsoever
so you don't need money to make money
you can make money just by having no
money just create something out of
nothing it's so easy inexpensive to
start a business today especially on the
Internet you don't need thousands of
dollars or to get into bed or anything
like that
okay next people should only have as
much money as they need to live
comfortably I don't believe that either
I think that we should have as much
money as what as you want you know
whatever you feel would make you feel
abundant or secure or significant or
give you the ability to live the
lifestyle that you want
striving for wealth can cause stress and
health problems not true I think
striving for wealth can be done in a way
where it's enjoyable and fun and I think
actually stress is a good thing because
it actually makes us stronger
and helps us to come more emotionally
fit in so many ways and it forces you to
actually learn how to become a better
person to deal with the challenges deal
with maybe stress or negative
experiences in your life by enduring
them so I actually think it could be an
asset to strive for wealth and go
through that stress or whatever it is it
can actually improve your health and
improve your character it's difficult to
get rich these days you kidding me is so
easy to get rich there's so many people
doing it it's the easiest time in human
history to get rich there's more people
getting rich than ever before especially
on the internet it's created more
millionaires than anything else in the
history of the world so it's extremely
easy most of good opportunities are gone
are you kidding me there's more
opportunities being created every single
day to make money it's it's there's more
plot there's never gonna be a shortage
of problems that arise in the world use
going to find the solutions to those
problems and add value people give in my
pass and be difficult for me to get rich
the past is not equal to future okay
just because in the fast past you failed
doesn't mean that you are in the future
so you got to get over that I'm not
smart or intelligent up to get rich are
you kidding me you can everybody has the
potential and the intelligence and you
can develop yourself and become
intelligent you can read book so you can
learn early go to seminars you can watch
these videos for me when I was in high
school I was a c-minus student barely
graduated school and your intelligence
and that has no that has nothing to do
with the results that you can create in
your life it's really just believing in
yourself and having a system that you
follow and just doing that so but
intelligence and being smart is
something that you can develop and learn
and grow to become I'm not educated
enough to get rich not true as many
people so many examples that don't have
any education whatsoever to dropped out
of high school University and they're
wealthy too young to get rich and the
next ones I'm too old to get rich
definitely not true age is this number
it doesn't matter how old you are how
young you are there's a lot of people
that are young that are wealthy there's
a lot of people they're old that are
wealthy doesn't you know age isn't as
much based on chronology as more
psychology you know there's some people
that might be 50 years old but they have
the mindset as someone who's in their
20s there might be someone who's in
their 20s who has a mindset and they're
mentally old like some in their 80s so
it nothing to do with your physical body
is all your beliefs in your mindset that
determine your success as a woman is
much more difficult to get rich I'm not
a woman but I believe that anyone we can
do anything a man can do and then some
so men and women are equal they have the
same opportunities there might be some
disadvantages in some context but you
can always overcome that if you're
really committed and you're resourceful
enough I don't like selling or promoting
not true any everything on this planet
is required it's either nothing on this
planet changes okay until someone is
sold or promoted something okay selling
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