hey everyone this is stefan from
projectlifemastery.com and today i'm
being joined by my lovely girlfriend
tatyana and today we're gonna share with
you guys how having a strong supportive
relationship having a supportive partner
can actually help you achieve the
success that you're after a lot faster a
lot easier and help you accelerate the
path towards achieving any goal that you
want because I think there's a big
misconception out there that a lot of
people have that a relationship is gonna
hold them back or you know people out
there that are single to think that you
know being in a relationship is going to
be a distraction it's gonna hold them
back from their success or that you
might already be in a relationship but
your partner is not on the same page
with you maybe you guys are a little bit
in conflict you're not totally aligned
going down the same path you have a goal
a vision an idea that's over here but
your partner is not in support of that
and we wanted to do this video just to
kind of discuss this and share with you
guys when you have a strong foundation
for your relationship and you're with
the right person that's supportive of
your mission your purpose who you are at
your core not what everyone else sees
but really truly who you are at your
core it's one of the most powerful
things that can really allow you to
achieve so much more in your life you
know I know for me since Tatiana has
been in my life she's given me more
someone that's in your corner that's
supporting you every step of the way you
know when you have those bad days when
you go through adversity when you go
through challenges when you need someone
to talk to or you need someone that
could be your cheerleader your supporter
or even often when you achieve goals and
you achieve success in your life have
someone that you can that you can
actually share that with and celebrate
that with that's a powerful thing I
remember I know early on in my journey
when I it's tremendous to achieve a lot
of success and I remember I you know
bought a sports car and I moved into a
penthouse and I had some big promotions
and launches where I made more money
than I could ever possibly imagined and
it was actually one of the most
frustrating moments of my life because I
didn't have anyone that I could truly
share that with someone out there that
would just not judge me for it be
jealous or envious
something that actually be supportive
and and proud of me and and you know
just be able to share those moments
together so I think it's just so
valuable to make sure that you have that
and and we can discuss if you're already
in a relationship how to create that but
you want to share your perspective as a
woman and for the women out there as
well
yes so as his partner as his girlfriend
I am here to support him I support his
mission in life his vision his goals and
we share a lot of we share a vision
together and so in order to support him
I'm not here to make his life harder I'm
not here to cause more stress or to be
picky about silly things if I see him
walking through the door and he has a
lot of a lot on his mind
business stress or whatever it may be
I'm not gonna go and say why don't you
put your laundry on the laundry basket
why is the toilet seat up you know I'm
not gonna be annoying like that and
cause more stress in his life instead
I'm gonna be supportive and and be there
for him if he wants to talk he can
bounce ideas off of me if he wants
whatever he needs I'm there to support
him so I understand what his needs are I
understand the six human needs and I
know what the top two needs are for him
and so whenever I see that he needs you
know some replenishment in those areas
meet some more love some more variety
whatever it may be that's what my role
is so my role is to provide that for him
so all I can really do is just try and
be as pleasant as possible and just you
know whatever is that I know that you're
needing in that moment that day be there
for you and not be a burden on you yeah
and the same thing goes I mean you know
Thomson Tatiana when she's focused on
her business or achieving certain goals
or she's had a rough day or stresses or
whatever it might be you know my role in
that relationship again it's not to make
it harder it's not to create drama it's
not to it's its first and foremost one
thing you can do anybody can do in a
relationship is make sure that you're in
a great state take good care of you
because whatever state that you're in is
gonna infect your relationship your
partner and everyone else around you so
when you're making sure that you're in a
great state you know
Tatjana I might be down whatever I can I
can be there for her I can be in a state
of mind that could be supportive that
can you know help her get herself back
on on her feet and I know there's been
also times you know when you have
business challenges or frustrations or
whatever frustration about being life
but when you have someone also that is
supportive in the way that they can
actually maybe challenge you a little
bit or they can break your pattern to
get out of that state that that person
might be in or they can help you see a
different perspective they can reframe
things because in life we're all gonna
go through different challenges but when
you actually have someone who's almost
there like kinda like a coach someone
that is gonna offer a different
perspective you know if you're focused
on the negative you know I can point out
the positives of things and change your
perception of it so that you can feel a
lot better about it as well so in times
of stress and times of anger in terms of
fear if both people are in a negative
state then it's not going to get any
better but if at least one person is in
a positive state then that person can
infect the other person with that
positivity so I can ask him empowering
questions I can say you know what is
great about your life who do you love
and who loves you what are you excited
about what are you happy about and so
when you ask these empowering questions
it's going to inevitably change his
state and make him feel better and so
that's where the support comes in and
just really seeing what that person
needs and not just assuming that what
you need is what they need I think often
times same thing if you guys know the
five love languages it's very very
valuable to know this for your
relationship sometimes the way that I
need to receive love the way that I feel
love is different than the way that he
accepts love and the way he feels love
so for me if it's me needing to receive
compliments it might be different for
him for him that might be physical touch
so if I'm giving him compliments all day
long he's saying I just don't feel loved
well it's because his way of receiving
love is with physical touch so knowing
that is also extremely valuable and just
providing that when necessary no it's
it's about getting outside of yourself
because oftentimes I think you know in a
relationship
see people that they're you know the
partners going through a bad time or a
rough state or they're stressed out and
then often times that can influence an
affect the other person and so they feel
like oh well this person's not giving to
me they're not meeting my needs so they
actually withdraw their love they
withdraw their connection they withdraw
their praise their attention all that
sort of stuff because now it's like they
kind of are making the problem a lot
worse in a way you know it's like oh
this person's not you know here for me
they're going through a hard time and so
they you know make it more dramatic and
worse than it is and you know it's just
silly to do that so I think it's
important to get outside yourself in
those moments understand that you know
there's times in a relationship if your
partner is not in the best state that's
the time where you don't withdraw you're
there for them you're there to support
them to encourage them to help them to
serve them and there's a variety of ways
of doing that but making sure you're
doing that in a way that again is
meeting the needs of your partner and
having that ability to know what your
partner really wants and needs in
certain moments to be able to give that
for them I think that that's a very
important thing and just that
unconditional giving I think is very
important because like Stefan said
sometimes we give with the expectation
of receiving something back and if you
don't receive something back then there
may be some resentment that's building
up and sooner or later it builds up
build up build up and then a fight
happens and so for us we just give
without expecting anything and let me
tell you when you give to your partner
unconditional love and you're always
meeting their needs at high levels your
partner is going to reciprocate that
they're going to want to give back and
we experienced this recently and it's
just interesting how humans work you
know I give him and he wants to give to
me and then I want to give to him more
and it's just it it's just a bucket of
love don't hold back don't hold back
don't wait for your partner take
initiative you be the one that takes
initiative give just give
unconditionally to them love them
support them whatever it is and your
needs will be met simultaneously from
that but I also want to touch on
something we discussed as well which is
being aligned with your partner because
this is one of the most important thing
is in a relationship that can allow it
to last long-term oftentimes a lot of
people that get in relationship out of
love or maybe passion attraction
oftentimes attraction and passion first
and then the love kind of follows from
that but the challenge with that is that
that's a relationship that's largely
just based off of emotion and the
problem with that is that motions can
change there could be times where you're
super attracted it could be a very
lustful relationship but you know that
can that can go away after a period of
time you can always reinvigorate a tree
spark it and the same thing with love as
well but oftentimes a lot of people when
they get together with someone they're
not actually looking to see are we
aligned in life are we going down the
same path do we want the same things do
we want the same vision goals because if
you're not aligned from the start in
your relationship there is gonna be
conflict and challenge later on you know
you could have a relationship and you
can meet someone and you have love and
passion and you're attracted to one
another but then you later find out that
you know your partner wants to have you
get married and another person does not
want to get married that's gonna be a
conflict that's a conflict of alignment
or one person wants to have kids the
other person doesn't or one person wants
to live this life traveling the world
and volunteering and make an impact or
whatever it might be the other person
they want to you know they value
security a lot more than freedom and so
for them they just want to have a
regular job regular life regular
ambitions and so oftentimes
relationships you know they're they're
in conflict like that because you're not
aligned with your partner from the start
and I think that's a very important
thing one of the best simplest things
you can do with your partner and we did
this when we first started dating like
literally we have in our journals from
like our third date actually our first
date we first you know we're sitting on
a log on the beach and we discuss our
future and our visions you know for each
of our lives and we found that we're
just has so much in common around
wanting the same things out of life but
you know one of the simplest things that
you can do is sit down with your partner
sit down with someone you know early on
when you're dating that
and ask them these questions find out
what is their future gonna look like if
they could just imagine be live create
any kind of life for they they would
want what would that be what would that
look like create a vision with that
person you know we've got a relationship
vision where we've spent time thinking
about where you want to live in the
world and the places that we want to
travel to together and what we want to
give and contribute and the relationship
we want to want to have and what we want
to learn and experience and the family
all that sort of stuff and so we've had
discussions about this early on in our
relationship to make sure that we both
want and agree to creating the same life
because then that allows us to both move
in that same direction you know if we're
doing this you know exercise and we're
talking about a revision you have a
totally different vision than myself
then you know obviously it's gonna
create a you know a number of problems
and conflicts in the future so getting
on the same page from that from the
start
it's actually a very fun process to do
to actually like for me it's one of my
favorite things to do is to think about
and daydream and just imagine the future
I mean we've that's how you manifest
things yes yeah that's a law of
attraction and we've you know we've
checked out houses together in
California we've you know we're always
looking up pictures and things like that
that we can have our own vision boards
and similar things
our vision boards are very similar very
identical and we both created our vision
boards separately and then you come
together more like well we have the same
vision boards isn't that funny and
that's just such a cool thing to have an
experience with your partner is you know
just getting down on that same page you
know and having that same vision similar
goals of course there can be differences
in relationships - not everything's
going to be identical needs to be
identical or the same but the most
important thing is do the most important
things about where you're going the
direction the future has to be aligned
and if it isn't you know that's that can
be the beginning of the end for a lot of
relationships and it's something that
you have to discuss with your partner to
make sure that you are doing the same
path so that you're growing together not
growing apart you know my parents have
been divorced yours as well
and what happened for them was they just
grew apart and it's much better I mean
my parents and your parents stayed
together for so many years of misery
that were not really that necessary but
they did it because you know they they
just wanted to stay they stuck together
versus pulling the plug earlier and just
having that courage to say you know what
we're not the right match for one
another we want different things in life
and our parents didn't have to waste
many years of their lives and a lot of
people unfortunately do that in
relationships because they don't get
clear on this from the beginning
so get clear from the beginning what you
want what your vision is with your
partner as well and make sure you're on
the same path have discussions have
talks about it and make sure that you
guys can support each other on whatever
that path and journey that you guys are
on mm-hmm yeah I also think you know a
lot of people ask me well how do you
deal with fighting in the relationship
and bickering and I always think you
know if your relationship is causing you
a tremendous amount of stress on a daily
basis or whatever these negative
emotions might be maybe you aren't
aligned because I don't believe that a
good relationship should be causing you
stress and anger and fear and pain I
think it should be bringing you more
positive emotions so it would be good to
kind of evaluate your relationship sit
down with your partner you know instead
of going on the movies on a date night
take a night where you can sit down
perhaps some food delivered and just
write out your vision and your goals and
just check that alignment and another
thing you mentioned at the beginning of
the video is a lot of times people think
that a relationship is going to distract
you so I think it's the opposite I think
that I don't know I'm not a man but if
you were single today I feel like you
know on the weekends you maybe you'd be
going out and dating girls or finding
girls and stuff and you'd be texting
them throughout the week which would
take up more of your time and distract
you more versus now in a relationship
there are benefits to that where I can
meet your needs both emotionally
physically you know there are just more
benefits that where I'm not really a
distraction so I feel like it is really
the opposite he's not distracted
thinking about all these girls that he's
dating you know you're not you're not
positioning
and it's almost like when you're single
you're having a lot of it you're just
kind of at the service in life you know
there's kind of a lot of surface level
interactions people that you meet
relationships and you know they come and
go very fast versus when you're actually
with the right person in your life and
you're investing time energy effort into
that relationship you're building
something that lasts oftentimes when
you're dating you're putting time into
people that you're never gonna see again
you know people they're not gonna play a
significant role in your life and so
it's kind of like you know I mean you're
gaining a lot of great experience from
you know things like that to you which
is great but when you find someone that
you put your effort your time energy
into and it grows and you get deeper and
deeper with it you're not just staying
at the surface you're getting deeper and
deeper that's where things become
magical that's when things become
powerful and for us we've shared so many
amazing experiences together and we've
traveled all over the world
I've done so many incredible things we
volunteered and then all these great
things together that for me I would not
want to experience on my own or with
just random people that I meet I'm
actually grateful that we get to
experience so much together early on in
our relationship while we're young
because you know oftentimes it's like
you know if you've already experienced
that with other people and then you meet
that person you got to re-experience all
those things all over again
and so that's the power I think of
having a relationship is you can go
deeper and deeper
whereas oftentimes when you're single
it's just more surface level and you
don't grow as much from that you're not
gonna it's it's it's gonna be more of a
distraction rather than actually
building something that's meaningful
it's kind of like in a way similar to
like starting a bunch of you know
businesses that don't last versus
building one business and investing into
that and growing it making a stronger
and that's gonna stand the test of time
and benefit you for the rest of your
life being with them you know sexually
because you know we're not 13 anymore of
course everyone you know we have sex
we're in a committed relationship and I
think that some a big benefit of the
is that we're able to now learn so much
more we've recently started Tantra and
practising Tantra and Tantra allows you
to kind of dive deeper into the
spiritual aspects of sexuality and when
you get to experience something like
that it's going to ripple into all the
other areas of their life so you just
feel more vibrant and abundant and happy
and it will impact your business it will
impact your business decisions it will
impact the videos that you make like
you'll just be a happier person overall
and you can't do that if you're just
bouncing around from one person to
another because it's again going to be
surface level you can never really do
the work it takes a lot of work and a
lot of practice to learn all this stuff
so we're able to really grow on all
these different levels together sexually
business-wise spiritually but basically
everywhere in life and it's that's
what's so exciting and that's the juice
of life and yeah it's really cool yeah
you know it all starts with you being
the best that you can be every single
day constantly improving growing
yourself if you're single that's how
you're going to attract an amazing
person in your life you have to become
the kind of person that you want to
attract if you want to attract someone
that's positive and happy and fit and
healthy and vibrant and ambitious and
you know all that sort of stuff you've
got to become that because when you are
that you are going to attract someone
who's also the match for that but also
aligned with the same things so make
sure that you're at your best
that's what's gonna allow you to be able
to attract the person that you're gonna
want to have in your life and if you're
already in a relationship
continue to strive to be your best don't
think that I've already attracted this
person so I don't need to work on myself
anymore
no you have to you know by you being
your best is a gift that you give to
your partner so making sure you take
good care of your health take good care
of your state your emotions your mindset
learning growing because the more that
you do it will benefit your partner it
will influence them but it also will
benefit your relationship as well yeah
and just one more thing you mentioned
taking care of yourself you know for the
ladies watching I know often times it's
very easy to come
placement once you're in a relationship
and to just not really care about how
you look anymore but actually you know
if your partner values appearance and
it's very important for you to do that
for your partner and for yourself and so
for me I consciously make an effort
every day to wake up and do my makeup
and do my hair and I always make sure
that my legs are you know nicely waxed
and clean and and just really be in my
feminine and be you know the image that
he likes to see because that's a way of
supporting him as well
so yeah just keep those in mind because
I think it's very easy to just say well
I'm in a relationship and I'm very busy
and I don't have time for this but
remember we all have 24 hours in a day
so it's just what you prioritize and if
it's a very big need for your partner
recognize that and take action on it
yeah so hopefully you guys enjoyed this
video we're gonna probably do some more
relationship videos like this if you
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things that have worked well for you but
if you guys want to learn more about
Tatiana
check out her luxe health channel on
YouTube I'll link to that below as well
and listen guys I wanna thank you so
much for watching hope you guys enjoyed
this and we'll see you guys again soon
take care
you
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